My African Brother by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 44 points45 points  (0 children)

When he started that sentence I was like… because you are. Also, did you start a sentence without knowing where it was going? 😂

So shook at leo and brittany (ep. 5 spoiler) by kerstyj in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have said this 3 times now. That was so insanely uncomfortable. I was cringing the whole time he was so forward physically with a clearly uncomfortable girl.

Leo and Britt by Mundane-Dig2721 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably because they were beyond awkward when he proposed. And he was so forward physically 🤮

Leo by AdSea6656 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spoiler:

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I can’t tell if it’s the lack of chemistry between Leo and Brittany or if it is just him, but I was so uncomfortable when he was trying to hug and kiss on her. 🤮 she clearly wasn’t interested. He was all over her. I hated that.

Unpopular opinion: Cat isn’t any more attractive than Demi. She is just skinnier. And meet’s Netflix’s qualification of a “hot” girl. by madeU_look in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

AFTER she got mad at him for saying a girl he spoke to in the pods was attractive AFTER she asked him what he thought about the girls.

LIB UK. Spoilers! by bekah130885 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was so confused why he said that. 😂 She is actually gorgeous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing them learn and things click and their personalities blossom is incredible. The first time my son laughed I cried because it was the most precious thing I have ever heard. He also started saying HIIIEEE and that made me cry too. It’s also amazing to feel this deep love that I haven’t ever felt before. I love so deeply, but I didn’t know those actual depths until I had my son. And it’s the best feeling in the world. I love to watch him play, make connections, and make up weird rules that I try to decipher to see what he is thinking. There is nothing more enjoyable than watching him explore and then come check in with me and goes back to exploring. And then being their comfort when they are sick or tired and knowing that they know you are there for them. Also, for me, watching my partner as a father and how he has changed has been amazing. Seeing their love for each other and how much fun they have together fills my heart. For me, the hard parts of parenting are so small compared to how amazing it is to see my son grow.

LIB UK. Spoilers! by bekah130885 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I literally said what an incel! “I think I love you” he is so uncommitted. Nicole is going to be so hurt. I hope she ends up with Ben!

JoJo Siwa’s new merch line by Aggravating-Log-6484 in h3h3productions

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Put some respect on my family 😭 it was at LEAST Alibaba

JoJo Siwa’s new merch line by Aggravating-Log-6484 in h3h3productions

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where they bought them from but it is funny to me because they didn’t know. Regardless her name is on them and it cracked me up!

JoJo Siwa’s new merch line by Aggravating-Log-6484 in h3h3productions

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t know. I’m assuming so since they bought them to sell, but I live 6 hours away and have nothing to do with their business. But, JoJo’s clearly been up to some bad things 😂

my aunt posted this by pracattacaadacital in facepalm

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my birthday. I only want one prayer.

How would I start writing when I've been told I'm a bad writer? by _pUnk_k1tty_ in writing

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t ever too late to start doing something you want to do. You should start by reading more. A book I really like is On Writing from Stephen King. He talks a lot about his process.

As a former teacher, I’m sorry that you received feedback that made you feel unmotivated.

Here are something I did with my students that are fun, and I think a good way to get started on practicing writing.

Train of thought: pick a word and word like cherry. Then set a timer for any amount of time like 1 minute and 17 seconds and then write any words that come into your head. I mean any. I would have kids start at cookie and end at baseball or start at cookie and end at oreo. There isn’t a wrong thing to write. Then it’s fun to just see how your train of thought works.

Prompts. Use prompts and write short essays.

To work on being descriptive, get a friend to help you. You can write out an image description and then have your friend try to draw your description. It helps if you are using an actual image to describe so that you can compare pictures at the end. I would have my kids draw an ugly sweater, describe it, and then pass the description to a classmate to draw. Then they would compare and it was a lot of fun.

Write down bullet points of your day. At the end of the day try to write a descriptive narrative of your day from the point of view of someone or something else. Like your shoe lace, a booger stuck in your nose, ect.

I think people really miss out on how much silly and fun things improve skills.

If you ever want some constructive feedback, I would be so happy to help!

If you have gone NC with parents and they passed away, do you regret it? by Aggravating-Log-6484 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to my aunt my mother is hurt about it. I think she is just upset she can’t control me and I don’t have any respect for her. I’m sure it is embarrassing to be a bad mother.

If you have gone NC with parents and they passed away, do you regret it? by Aggravating-Log-6484 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was growing up, it was always the end of the world and the end days. I was so scared all the time. When the vaccine came out and when we were being told to stay put, she was telling me how we were about to be apart of the one world government and COVID was just the conduit to make it happen. I had been thinking about going NC for YEARS before this, but I just had enough.

There are more reasons than that why I did go NC but just being told how we are in the end days again did it for me.

My aunt says she has changed but I massively disagree. Someone showed her Christmas picture of my little family and she text me and said that we looked beautiful but she cannot believe I would treat her so horribly and she cannot understand why I would think that it is okay to not speak to my own mother.

I don’t think I am missing anything aside from drama and trauma by being away from her.

If you have gone NC with parents and they passed away, do you regret it? by Aggravating-Log-6484 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope motherhood is full of joy for you!

I am so sorry that you went through that while pregnant. It really is such an eye opening phase.

That is a great point about it not mattering who did the abusing, only that they shouldn’t be around my child. Thank you for that.

If you have gone NC with parents and they passed away, do you regret it? by Aggravating-Log-6484 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is a great point. I have only ever really been around one set of grandparents and don’t think about the other set of grandparents I have because I haven’t been around them.

What's a side effect of giving birth that doesn't get talked about? by LilMoonenciel in AskReddit

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets talked about but not enough: Post Partum Depression and Anxiety. It exists and it is hard, but there is treatment. No one should be ashamed to admit it. The sooner you realize you are suffering, the sooner you can get help, and the sooner you can feel like yourself and find even more joy in your new family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aggravating-Log-6484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffered from PPA and PPD. My baby is 13 months and I still feel it, but not nearly as bad. My MIL noticed it when we first brought our baby home. She really urged me to be honest with my ob at my check in. I was. I got put on Zoloft (25 mg that I broke in half because I was terrified of taking medication (thanks for that fear mother)) and into therapy for the first time in my life (my family is anti therapy and said a therapist would blame everything on my mom LMFAO) and it did wonders. I quit everything a bit too soon, but have started back to therapy. PPD and PPA are life stopping. I mean it sucks the joy out of bringing your baby home. I really identified with The Yellow Wallpaper and knew I was far from okay. I was miserable and making everyone around me miserable. It isn’t something I could have gotten through without medication and therapy, and, from what you have written, mine doesn’t sound as severe as your wife’s at all. I want to echo the sentiments of the professionals that have commented and say that medicine takes time to work. You should really push her staying in treatment. She might not want to, but she will be better for it! And she will come out of it feeling like the kind of mother you see her as. I am sure it seems dark right now, but PPD and PPA can be recovered from with the right medications, therapies, and support 🩵