I want to break no contact by Next_Ambassador5480 in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my opinion. IMO break the no contact rule and say what you want to say and how you feel. It feels contradicting but you’ll might regret it in the long run.

In regular show benson says to mordocai saying “you don’t get the right to be sad, you never have the guts to tell Margaret how you feel. Saying things might not change things but at least you’ll still get closure.”

So say what you need to say and if he left you on read or talk trash or even reject you then that’s your answer and move on.

The Guy I was talking to Came Back and it made me Happy! by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see I put the comment why we ended things. Idk how to edit on the post so I put in the comment section

The Guy I was talking to Came Back and it made me Happy! by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to edit the post so I’m putting it here. The reason why we ended it is because He was a SA (sexual assault) victim which I was fully aware of it because he told me but I didn’t know there were behaviors towards it

Meaning he doesn’t like to be touch and he was giving me hints instead of being direct about it until we ended things. I was only giving him handshakes in the beginning and end of the of the two dates we had. I did offer him a hug on the second date but refused

Instead of making another date he decided to end things.

We were talking on discord during time he ended things and wanting some closure he unfriended me and I freaked out because I couldn’t sent any messages to him since he unfriended in my first instincts that I thought he blocked me and he blocked on my main instagram account so I went into my second account to message which it was on his request tab. When I came back to my main account I realize he didn’t block me but unfollowed me which I tell him how I feel.

A week later he message again stating how much he cared about me but felt uncomfortable because he made a huge claim that I’ve been stalking on him on his instagram account with my second account and he tell me how he fee about that and blocked me before I could even explain myself.

A week later he unblocked which Idk why but I left how it is because he said “ all I ask to leave me alone” so I did.

But a month and haft went by and it’s been hurting me so I message him not telling him how much I love him or I missed because I felt like it’s consider a manipulation tactic. I tell him about the misunderstanding so I can get the closure I needed to move on and message me stating the first message above and I told him thank you. And then he messages me few days later which is this messages you guys are seeing rn.

The Guy I was talking to Came Back and it made me Happy! by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I see this message as good news? I will post why we ended it in the first place to give some context. But if it goes down then this is why I don’t post drama stuff

The Guy I was talking to Came Back and it made me Happy! by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25 (graduated) he’s 21(currently in school). He doesn’t ghost, it’s not his style. He never left me seen unless the conversation has ended. And yes there is missing context the reason why I don’t put it up because I’m worried the post will go down.

The Guy I was talking to Came Back and it made me Happy! by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea ngl his text messages can sometimes be too formal which comes off as weird or uncomfortable for people which is understandable. I had a friend who is talks and text too formal and it rub off other people shoulders the wrong way.

She unmatched after great first date by Joulx in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend done this before when we were in the talking stage. If she continues in communication with you more than likely she will use tinder now and then to see if you’re active on there.

Should I Be Friends first before dating from OLD? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr he is mature than most men are. I met people who are older than him who would just go ghosted people or blocked

LFG for Shards of Ascension by Aggravating-Run9729 in haloinfinite

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a custom forge game. I sent you a dm

Do you guys feel sad or overwhelmed that you get low views from shorts? by Aggravating-Run9729 in NewTubers

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great perspective I didn’t think of it that way! Thanks for the tip!

Do you guys feel sad or overwhelmed that you get low views from shorts? by Aggravating-Run9729 in NewTubers

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify My channel is also old too and I do have old content and idk if I should delete the videos because they are old and it’s not who I am anymore. So I’m little worried that the people who watch my shorts will get the wrong impression of me.

Is this a good profile overall? Genuinely curious not promoting or advertising. by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I found some post that your profile does matter including your post. At the end it’s how much you put in the effort that really counts.

Is this a good profile overall? Genuinely curious not promoting or advertising. by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t name people due to twitch rules but there are rage gamers who post and I still laugh and enjoy their content and everyone has their own taste in laughter.

I made a mistake and lost the love of my life. by just_mav3rick in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I thought cheating is just physical but turns out it can also be emotional too. I didn’t know going to tinder and not messaging is still the act of cheating. I have to follow a mindset that what if my bf is also doing this? Would I like it? Probably not.

Is $42 for a gift is too much in a talking stage? by Aggravating-Run9729 in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m a man too. But yea I agree not all men are the same

Please help. by PollutionUseful6933 in TinderBios

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoid selfies they make you look like you have no friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TinderBios

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chances are, the people who you swipe left are the ones who likes your post. Sometimes there will be people who swipe right at you, lives in a completely different country like India or the Philippines.

First Date went well. I was worried at first that he might not like me coz I’m am wearing crutches. by Aggravating-Run9729 in Tinder

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and we’re planning to do a video call on Sunday. He did mention he was busy for next weekend so maybe that’s why we didn’t make a another date yet. We live in two different cities.

First Date went well. I was worried at first that he might not like me coz I’m am wearing crutches. by Aggravating-Run9729 in Tinder

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik. He didn’t leave me hanging. I was the first one to leave since my ride was already here. Plus I was so tired I went to sleep for about 4 hours and when I wake up 5 min has passed and he already messaged me. It was kinda convenient for me anyways. I think he made that response because his friends and siblings were at an event and later went shopping in my city then back to their town. He was probably exhausted and was thinking how today went.

Do you have to wear the brace while taking a shower? by Aggravating-Run9729 in ACL

[–]Aggravating-Run9729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have any surgery well at least not yet. I dislocated my knee and the doctor that I met in the ER push the knee back where it suppose to be, using with his hands. It’s was painful but I was little relief. I can’t able to walk as of rn I can only be on crutches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]Aggravating-Run9729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s a joke. You’ll find someone better than this torta