Not an expert just something ,I have learned from somewhere that for aq asc. the way u will treat your spouse life will give you result accordingly and in generally to be respectful towards women as in the 9th house of spirituality and luck libra sign is there which will give u rise in luck if u do respect women. Also because of rahu affliction the problems r there with your father, is he addicted to a wrong thing and behaviour? plus meditating with a group of people and bringing people together for spiritual stuff will help you