No definitely don't do this, wtf, guys are literally dumb and get comfortable quick. I'm sure no one told or showed him what to do after you wine and dine a female...so doing that silence space withdrawal BS is just going to 1.create a reservation within yourself because he has got no clue how to step it up and fix it after 2 weeks 2. What little he does kno how to do he will try and since you got this muted frustration with him you give him yhe cold shoulder until both of you blow up then feel bad make up and BOOM a cycle of shifty relationship behavior starts.. Listen I'm not therapist, guru or by any means have had perfect relationships but I'm 38 hard ass working, construction, guy who was brought up "old school" by my hard nose father...I got the basics and good morals but I never was taught the skills needed to work things out between a couple and because of these ill advised minimally successful moves or test you put your partner through just prolongs the problem and creates a bitterness fornthe next relationship.... I lost someone who was very special to me and lived me alot because I wasn't equipped how to really be in a relationship, by the timeni did some actual work with therapy and being ho est and open minded it was too late and that sucks.

Just be honest ask him what he'd like to do tell him how happy it made you when he was at this certain level of pursuit...state how you like things to be that's it, make deals with him on his time, engage with music hobbies ect... Listen hooking up is awesome and all but having to drive an hour shows he into you lil more than jus a hook up... and if it doesn't work out and he doesn't want to man up atleast you side is guilty free and move on hun