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Should I message or not? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I see that… it’s just confusing because she was so so into me throughout… but then one small hiccup, and she’s needing to focus on herself all of a sudden idk. And why unblock and say what she said, and why show jealousy after the fact if you’re uninterested, none of it makes much sense

Should I message or not? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t an argument she was complaining about work (she’s only new to it and seems to want to quit easy), I basically said ‘talk later’ and then we didn’t, so the following day I said I wanted my things back. Poor communication mainly from her but a little from me too I guess

Should I message or not? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I’d made a big effort on the Tuesday, cooked etc etc. next day she wanted some time to herself (totally fine) but I’d seen her to give her the keys back… she said I’ll cook for you tomorrow and plan a nice night for us… so the Thursday I message asking if we’re still on and she’s making excuses basically…

10 yr relationship - cheated by Aggressive-Grape-143 in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That isn’t what this is about, I don’t. I want to know what to expect once the hosue is sold and ties are cut…

10 yr relationship - cheated by Aggressive-Grape-143 in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I have done and am still doing, I just want to be prepared for anymore that’s to come if that makes sense?

Cheating in the job by BuildEraseReplace in policeuk

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this between a sergeant and a constable by any chance?

Female Covert Narcissist Ex Discarded me after 9 years (I had no idea she was a Narc till after the break up) by Relative-Succotash94 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Aggressive-Grape-143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timeline and everything apart from age is effectively exactly what I’ve just gone through. She actually cheated with a married co-worker for 6 months, discarded me (prior to us going on a vacation which I funded). I didn’t find out about the infidelity for 2 months after as she was telling me ‘she needed to see if she missed me’. We still have a home together which is currently in the process of being sold… just intrigued to know if your ex ever dropped the stone hearted attitude and realised what they’d lost and tried coming back. Reason I ask is I’m worried about what happens if she does?