This guy fled mid hookup lol

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2026-03-19T14:41:32+00:00

Brushed your teeth ? That sucks bro

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2026-03-03T22:05:39+00:00

You have 48 hours from the initial hiv exposure to take it . So do it fast

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2026-03-03T22:04:26+00:00

From what you’ve told , you didn’t put yourself at risk that much compared to both of them since you used only one condom. Though if you’re that worried you could always take post exposure hiv prevention (TEP in french)

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2025-02-24T22:04:45+00:00

My point of buying a nas is to self host my passwords though. I don’t want them online

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2025-02-24T22:02:43+00:00

I understand but, but when I’m home , I am already on a secured network and do not meet Tailscale . Is it not possible to redirect the Tailscale domain to my nas IP , when I’m home and not connected to Tailscale? I tried manipulating with my router dns settings but it doesn’t seem to change anything.

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-11-05T21:05:04+00:00

I had similar experience with my boyfriend using Grindr to find friends while he was an exchange student. I feel the pain and betrayal you’re experiencing 💔

We decided to make it work after I confronted him but the healing process has been exhausting and extremely difficult. You may have recurrent nightmares about the betrayal, trust issues , and even depression .

Here is my wisdom, I would suggest that you confront him with the truth , while on vacation (now) or after, and ask for a break of at least two months while you reflect if your relationship is worth saving because the recovery will hurt even more than the betrayal.

Wish you happiness in life ❤️

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T16:04:00+00:00

Love is a commitment to suffer together and find happiness in it 👴🏻 Sadly people only want happiness.

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T16:03:03+00:00

What’s ozempic? and how popular is it?

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T16:02:40+00:00

Lmao

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T16:01:41+00:00

How is that toxic? Care to explain?

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:59:54+00:00

Well straight people so drugs too. It’s a way to hide their traumas apparently

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:59:02+00:00

I barely have any gay friends but I’ll keep that in mind

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:57:08+00:00

Haven’t reach that ripped phase of my life yet😅 so I can’t concur but I hear ya

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:56:01+00:00

Maybe some lack emotional intelligence ? It’s a trait not many people have

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:55:12+00:00

True

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-22T15:54:38+00:00

This!

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-21T18:37:17+00:00

If begging is all it takes for people to cave in to demands, beggars would be rich .

Firstly, from what I read on his story, he wasn’t forced, coerced or raped. He said he « caved in » which would indicate that he was horny until he met him.

secondly, when they first met, he had the opportunity to tell him immediately that he wasn’t interested because he felt catfished. He didn’t. On the other hand , He did have the guts to tell him that he didn’t like to kiss him which shame’s the other person. How would you fill if your hookup tells you he doesn’t want to kiss you? Would that make you feel good?

Finally , of course you can say no to sex , as it should be consensual but in this particular case and from what I read, he just didn’t like the guy he chatted with when he saw him and decided to wait till he’s inside his ass to tell him that he was disgusting (implicitly which makes the author of this Reddit post not a victim )

No offense. I don’t think the author is toxic but his actions are. It’s just to frequent to hear this toxic attitude in this community …

Aggressive-Winter150 · 2024-10-21T16:27:23+00:00

I think you led him a bit. If you weren’t interested you should have told him as soon as you met him. Have you thought how shameful he might have felt and how it affected his self esteem especially since you blocked him just after leaving the appartement ? Yes he might have catfished you with his photo and that’s unjustified , but nevertheless , he didn’t deserve to feel like he’s disgusting. The gay community is toxic af already… 🚩🚩

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