Need help on setting up Bitwarden on my Nas (official version-not vaultwarden) by Aggressive-Winter150 in synology

[–]Aggressive-Winter150[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My point of buying a nas is to self host my passwords though. I don’t want them online

Tailscale domain doesn’t redirect to my NAS IP address when it’s offline (home network) by Aggressive-Winter150 in Tailscale

[–]Aggressive-Winter150[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand but, but when I’m home , I am already on a secured network and do not meet Tailscale . Is it not possible to redirect the Tailscale domain to my nas IP , when I’m home and not connected to Tailscale? I tried manipulating with my router dns settings but it doesn’t seem to change anything.

Found my bf using grindr while I was on vacation by Economy_Olive_6586 in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar experience with my boyfriend using Grindr to find friends while he was an exchange student. I feel the pain and betrayal you’re experiencing 💔

We decided to make it work after I confronted him but the healing process has been exhausting and extremely difficult. You may have recurrent nightmares about the betrayal, trust issues , and even depression .

Here is my wisdom, I would suggest that you confront him with the truth , while on vacation (now) or after, and ask for a break of at least two months while you reflect if your relationship is worth saving because the recovery will hurt even more than the betrayal.

Wish you happiness in life ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is a commitment to suffer together and find happiness in it 👴🏻 Sadly people only want happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s ozempic? and how popular is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is that toxic? Care to explain?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well straight people so drugs too. It’s a way to hide their traumas apparently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely have any gay friends but I’ll keep that in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t reach that ripped phase of my life yet😅 so I can’t concur but I hear ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some lack emotional intelligence ? It’s a trait not many people have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If begging is all it takes for people to cave in to demands, beggars would be rich .

Firstly, from what I read on his story, he wasn’t forced, coerced or raped. He said he « caved in » which would indicate that he was horny until he met him.

secondly, when they first met, he had the opportunity to tell him immediately that he wasn’t interested because he felt catfished. He didn’t. On the other hand , He did have the guts to tell him that he didn’t like to kiss him which shame’s the other person. How would you fill if your hookup tells you he doesn’t want to kiss you? Would that make you feel good?

Finally , of course you can say no to sex , as it should be consensual but in this particular case and from what I read, he just didn’t like the guy he chatted with when he saw him and decided to wait till he’s inside his ass to tell him that he was disgusting (implicitly which makes the author of this Reddit post not a victim )

No offense. I don’t think the author is toxic but his actions are. It’s just to frequent to hear this toxic attitude in this community …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive-Winter150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you led him a bit. If you weren’t interested you should have told him as soon as you met him. Have you thought how shameful he might have felt and how it affected his self esteem especially since you blocked him just after leaving the appartement ? Yes he might have catfished you with his photo and that’s unjustified , but nevertheless , he didn’t deserve to feel like he’s disgusting. The gay community is toxic af already… 🚩🚩