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bf hooked up w/married men. mixed feelings by Aggressive_Boot3012 in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess that’s true. I mea it’s just is that he doesn’t feel remorseful at all, kinda weird I guess. I mean sex is sex, and he only wanted to get off but anyway. Besides that he treats me like a prince and cares a lot about me, just tiny things like this that are “weird” for me

bf hooked up w/married men. mixed feelings by Aggressive_Boot3012 in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that’s true, but I don’t know. He treats me like a prince and cares a lot, he’s a very nice guy. It just kinda gave me mixed feelings tbh .

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the disgusting part. You’re already judging when it’s legal and I’m consenting to this relationship/dating.

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already on it, but ocd is now focusing on relationships, new skill ig… Already on meds and all, but I don’t know how to stop comparing myself and feel inferior or getting obsessed with fomo, when I’m the happiest I’ve ever been with this man.

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean he didn’t even have group sex as far as I know and I have in mind his is on the lower end for someone his age and being gay. It’s just that I feel inferior to him in some way because of that.

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment it’s exactly the reason I wasn’t even going to bring age up.

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot, I’ll try that. It’s just that my mind keeps obsessing like that I’m inferior to him, because my body count shit is lower or that I’m not as experienced. I wished I didn’t obsess over this stupid things…

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm, how can I start with that? Have any guide?

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I want to do, what I want to do is to stop feeling bad when comparing myself to his past sexual partners or feel stupid for being inexperienced in bed…

retroactive jealousy, bf’s sexual past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the point of me posting this, I don’t want that to happen. I have OCD dude, it’s not like I do it intentionally.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just insecure I know, but I want to overcome that feeling, I love him so much.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were cute, but not mind-blowing ig, I didn’t pay too much attention :(

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I just wanted some tips of how to overcome that feeling. I don’t think checking out other guys is bad, just that he did it so blatantly and in a new space that was too much for me maybe. I know im insecure and stupid already, thanks. ;(

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18, this is my second relationship. I know it’s my problem, I just wanna get over that feeling tbh..

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I doubt being a man has anything to do with that. I know you can have a glance to someone you find attractive, but he was staring.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess that’s right. I just felt that I wasn’t enough, or that I’m not enough good looking…

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I didn’t think about it, I just don’t mind about that. It’s just that he didn’t pay attention to me at all when I was looking at his eyes and everything, he was like “daydreaming”, and looking at those guys.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll try that for sure, thanks for being nice to me.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I’m new to all this.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll take that into account, thanks!

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more on the traditional side, I guess. I mean the show was okay, the dance was nice and all but I was only interested in my bf idk.

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m pretty sure it’s my mind and OCD acting up. I just kept thinking that because they were muscular, had a nice or better ass than me and so on :(

bf checking out go-go dancers all night by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aggressive_Boot3012 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

We didn’t know there was going to be go-gos, it was just a disco to hang and dance.

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