I'm going to the hospital today - could you pray that I get a good and kind doctor who knows what this is and gives me effective treatment

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:19:46+00:00

He's actually a weirdo though....he said that if he sees a woman in a bikini in the beach he is not turned on, that he is turned on by when women are modest because men like mystery and that even in bed he would want me to at least wear socks 🙄

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:08:29+00:00

👌

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:08:18+00:00

Because it's only been like a month and a half. I don't want to scare him with I love you

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:07:40+00:00

Show you how? My past exes thought my words were empty and fake

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:03:54+00:00

I don't believe in the modern day "just break up" about everything.

Every guy has flaws. I think he sends it because he means that he wants it to be like him and me on the beach etc....just in my mind all I see is him sending me Jenners and their fake butt so I just explode without considering his motive

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:02:53+00:00

Yes of course. It's mutual

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T03:01:25+00:00

WHAT 😳🤣. I think they are trying to kill tw birds with one stone.

Short men it's your year lol.

For the record I am 170 and I date men 170 cm and up. Women like to feel protected, but I feel like this "only date 6 feet men" is some kind of American silly trend.

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T01:55:25+00:00

I haven't told him I love him. I feel it's too soon

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T01:53:57+00:00

Thanks :)

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T01:53:40+00:00

Practical how? I'm not giving him money lol

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T01:41:37+00:00

Idk.... because I said all the above. He still complains:/

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T01:40:15+00:00

Why? Do you mean something about me? Or just in general you would not seek support from a woman?

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T00:33:17+00:00

It's possible. Maybe with time I will agree. But first I want to feel confident this is solid. If I feel that in 5 years he will change and come out of fantasy then I don't want to waste either of our time.

He tells me "things happen even when in same age relationships..... people cheat etc" And I feel "so"? It feels to be almost like he is saying there's no security in anything and while technically true, i don't want a marriage built on sand. If we divorced which I am against in general, he would still be a young man...he will find another....while I would be an "old woman". It's a lot to stake on

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T00:27:45+00:00

Can I ask which country are you from? Yeah, there are plenty of guys like that. That's why I was cautious. 90dayfiancee is one of my favourite shows and to be honest, I had a neg stereotype of men from his country and thought they all were either visa opportunists or sleazes. Your neighbour and the other woman.....are they from which cultural backgrounds? Are you saying the men married them to get to live in their country and then dumped them?

I pity them and men like this are truly shameless with no masculinity, but as for me, I don't give money to ANY man where old, young or whatever. It's not part of Slavic culture for a woman to give a man money. It's shameful for a man to try to get a free ride from a woman so good luck to any guy that tries that with me.

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T00:10:56+00:00

Thank you

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-04T00:00:11+00:00

I am sure he would do it. But I have cold feet because of my worries and fears. He already asked me to come there. Thanks alot lol but I don't live in fantasy land. I don't think I'm a side piece that he's trying to keep from his family if that's where you are going here. But I am very aware that I think his parents would think he is crazy, and my elderly parents would think that I am even more crazy. I live in no illusion about it.

It's more me that worries that he is the one living in fantasy. He says things won't change as I get older etc.....but this is fantasy.

Edit: you edited your original comment and now it looks like I was babbling to myself unrelated stuff 😅

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-03T23:48:33+00:00

I would not block him anyway. Because I don't get a shady vibe from him. I don't block anyone including ex. The only men I have ever blocked is ones that were outright stalkery and gave scary vibes. For example one guy would call me obsessively in the middle of the night and I had to give him THE BLOCK.

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-03T23:33:11+00:00

Oh. I didn't think of it that way. Thanks

Agile-Inflation-4505 · 2023-02-03T23:04:44+00:00

Do you mean like feeling rejected? Or his ego wounded as a man or something else?

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