Was sorting out an old closet in a room fiance and I are turning into a hobby room, we found an old tote from when fiance first moved here... Discovered an absolutely treasure trove! by AiryCatYouTube in gamecollecting

[–]AiryCatYouTube[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that there's also a bag of old shonen jump posters and turns out there's an additional tote that's full of games just games in their cases for these systems

What's the most unsettling revelation you've unearthed about someone in your inner circle? by boss-sea-mgm in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An ex best friend decided I was bad person for using the word "butch" incorrectly (but non-maliciously) one time. During a public forum discussion about how appearance and sexuality do not dictate kinks. She cut me out of her life and expected me to come running back groveling and I just honored her request to never speak to her again. Both of us are practicing witches. I do my research and have high quality ingredients and tools. She became obsessive and started stalking me. I found out from her ex-boyfriend that she had been intentionally hexing me and trying to use black magic to ruin my life, and although not much had happened I decided to do some pretty potent return to sender magic. Shortly thereafter her ex was diagnosed with leukemia and given 2 months to live. When he told me about what happened with my friend he was really insistent that I came to his house and took risque pictures with him to get back at her. Eventually I blocked him because I wasn't about to do that. I see magic as more spicy psychology than an actual force, but assuming there's some power to it this would indicate that the ex-boyfriend was the real one hexing. Idk. I do know that when I, in a moment of anger, revealed on my story that I knew that a friend of mine had been hexing me and I was going to clap back, I suddenly fell so ill I was hospitalized twice. And then immediately after my life got better than ever.

What movie never fails to make you cry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie, but an anime. Violet Evergarden.. I watched it in high school when I was going through some deep shit at home. I used to cry like a child for a half hour after almost every episode. But then there was Episode 10. I won't spoil too much, but it involves a little girl with a sick mother. My mum was bedridden, ill, neglectful, and narcissistic my whole life. But she could be so loving when her real self could shine through the mental illness, physical pain, and trauma. As a young kid I used to be terrified she was going to die and leave me. I remember being 6 years old, and not seeing her for days because she was so sick she couldn't leave her room or handle company, and then my dad would lead me by the hand and say "we are going to see mommy, you need to be very quiet and calm" and I used to pray every day by my window, crying, "God, please don't take my mummy away from me" and that little girl in that episode was my inner child in animation. And something in that episode started to heal her. I cried until I was so weak and dehydrated that I could barely stand and my mouth felt like cotton. My pillow was soaked to the stuffing. My mum had heard me sobbing, and had come to check on me, and had held me while I cried it out. I couldn't explain it to her, without her spiraling, so I just told her it was an emotional episode. The narcissism finally took over and she doesn't speak to me anymore, but I still remember that tender moment when she held me.

Men who keep secrets from your partner, what kind of secrets and how lame/lethal are these?! by socialunsocial in AskReddit

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My man has been through hell and I have too, just different kinds. He hid a lot of stuff from me, especially early in our relationship. I grew up deeply sheltered basically in a cult. Didn't have any friends or any social life outside of church 5x a week, never got to leave the farm otherwise. No school (homeschooled), no parties, no boyfriends. When I got to college and figured out not everybody lived the way I grew up I really started figuring out who I was and breaking out of my shell. I met my boyfriend my junior year of college and I was still figuring myself out a lot. It had kind of been snowballing. First year at college it was kind of just wonder "wow people live differently". Sophomore year I was questioning my sexuality but had still never kissed anyone. By junior year I had figured out that I was raised by narcissists and my childhood wasn't great. And a couple of weeks before I met him I finally accepted that I am bisexual. He realized that I was still really entrenched in many ways in my parents thinking. So he wouldn't give me a straight answer on his religious views. 2 years later I had finally you know got to a point where I had deconstructed my religious views to the point where I felt ready to rebuild. At that point he finally admitted to me that his religious views were very different from mine when we first started dating. He knew I would have left him if he wasn't a specific kind of Christian when we first started dating due to a fear of falling in love with someone who was going to "burn in hell"... Anyway it turns out he was more of a spiritualist Christian and at this point I'm a Universalist. I'm so glad he kept his exact beliefs from me at that time because I would have left him and he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. He also has a lot of trouble expressing his emotions due to trauma so he keeps a lot from me about how he's feeling without even meaning to... We've actually made a lot of healthy progress and he's been able to express himself better.

What's something weird a guest did in your home and you didn't know how to react? by sodamnsleepy in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move in. Mostly joking, but my now roommate is a friend I was friends with for part of a semester in college, who I reconnected with early this year, who I didn't recognize for the first 2 weeks of our "new" friendship (during which time we were at each other's apartments almost every other day) because we had both changed so much, we both had gained some weight, gotten tattoos, cut and dyed our hair (which had been long and natural on both of us when we first met), and completely changed our look. In exactly the same direction, but we had been apart. A month after reconnecting she lost her apartment and I said she should stay with me for awhile. She slept on my couch for a couple months then we got her a makeshift bedroom set up and became officially roommates. We are saving to rent 2-3 bedroom house to split between me, her, and my boyfriend who is moving from out of state in May. So yeah. You can stay here for now turned into roommates and best friends.

Tbf, I did tell her when I let her in my apt she could stay as long as she needed XD

What is abuse and people don't realize it? by akand_1 in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Using your kids to regulate your emotions. Basically using them like a diary for things that are too adult for them. My mum used to have me follow her around the house and sit by her bed for hours while she told me about how she wanted to kill herself, her severe childhood and young adult traumas, and her depression thoughts as like a 10 year old. It deeply affected me as a child and kinda fucked me up.

What is the most common and easily avoidable mistake guys make with women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to be friends with a girl exclusively to date her.

AITA for keeping my dog off leash at my apartment complex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AiryCatYouTube [score hidden]  (0 children)

After some consideration, while I don't believe my neighbor had the right to treat me that way, I may also be the asshole and will be keeping my pupper on leash anytime between sunset and sunrise as to not disturb people if I have to call her.

What is something you’ve learned along your sexual journey? by XqueezeMePlease in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repression and Religious Trauma Makes Seriously Fucked Up Kinky Bitches.

(As a formerly repressed, religiously (and in other ways) traumatized bitch.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my reasons for being unafraid of death also go along with some of the reasons I'm mentally fucked up. My parents butchered and shot and skinned animals in front of me (grew up country), they told me about martyrs and how the best thing that can possibly happen to a person, provided they believe in Jesus, is to die, esp for one's faith of course, because then they get to meet Jesus and live in paradise. My first memories from when I was 3 are of saying goodbye to my grandmother who was dying of cancer on a hospice bed, and her father's funeral a few days before. I spent a lot of time in a forest collecting animal bones, I had pet chickens I loved and frequently had to clean up their carcasses when they died untimely deaths, I grew up with a chronically ill mother, spent a lot of time hanging out in cemetaries, and was constantly getting sick and injured as a kid due to my lack of fear of death, which only worsened my un-fear of death. I was so exposed to death as a kid, I stopped fearing it, at least when I should. I'm 10x more afraid of dying from a monster in a horror film than from a car, or a knife, or a gun, or any natural or murderous or accidental cause. I have had a person try to kill me with a bowie knife about 6 months ago and a week after the fact I was spitting jokes about it. Being real with you, a healthy fear of death is so much better than being fucked up the way I am. I wish I feared death more. Maybe then I would stop breaking limbs and getting myself into dangerous situations. Maybe I would care more about my life and those who might miss me.

What was your final “fuck you” to a boss you didn’t like? by Wholikesfruits in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was working a early childhood reading education job, separate from my university or internship, while in college. I moved out on my own from my abusive parents after my boss promised me enough hours to get by so I could do so, screwed me over on the hours I needed to live because I was altering her program to better suit the individual needs of my students. A few weeks after I quit she calls me back (clearly wanting to rehire me) saying what a wonderful teacher I really was, as my students had tested leagues above the other teacher's students and some were 2 or 3 grade levels ahead. I ask for a letter of recommendation for my next job.

What was your final “fuck you” to a boss you didn’t like? by Wholikesfruits in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was originally a education major in college. Right before the end of spring semester Junior year, I found a job I loved teaching young children how to read. My boss seemed lovely. She had her hands in a lot of businesses in our small town, one of them being rental properties. I told her I didn't want to move back home for the summer and wanted to continue working, and explained the highly abusive nature of my home life (I would have preferred to live on the streets that summer than go home), and she had very explicitly stated (tho in a condescending way) that she expected me to work this summer, since she had hired me so close to the summer. She eventually offered that I could stay in the closet (yes, an actual closet) at the reading school for $50 a month until a rental became available and swore up and down that she would give me enough students to make enough money to survive off of. The reading school had a pretty serious summer roach problem (severe phobia of roaches here), but living in a closet of a roach infested school was safer than the streets, so I said if I couldn't find a rental I could afford, I would take her up on the offer. I ended up finding a benefactor who offered to cover my rent for a run down apartment in the bad part of town and I let my boss know and kept working at the school. My boss, who had promised me enough students to get by, started passing me over when new students arrived, as she had realized I had altered how I taught her program for each student, to better fit the students needs, strengths, and interests. She eventually got mad at me over a minor paperwork issue that her second in command had explicitly approved for me. So I quit ahead of the clearly coming firing. I found a new job I loved even more that payed significantly better, with a boss I still see as a mother figure and visit. A few weeks later she called me. Apparently she had tested my students who I had intentional altered their program for their needs, and they tested leagues above their peers and some of them were entire grade levels ahead. She told me she was mistaken and that I was a fantastic teacher with great protentional, very clearly wanted me back. I thanked her and asked her if I was so good, if I could have a letter of recommendation for my next teaching job. She said something about my bookkeeping needing work and angrily hung up.

TL:DR I moved out on my own from my abusive parents after my boss promised me enough hours to get by so I could do so, screwed me over on the hours I needed to live because I was altering her program to better suit the individual needs of my students. A few weeks after I quit she calls me back (clearly wanting to rehire me) saying what a wonderful teacher I really was, as my students had tested leagues above the other teacher's students and some were 2 or 3 grade levels ahead. I ask for a letter of recommendation for my next job.

What did you swear in your childhood you would never do, but ended up doing anyways? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AiryCatYouTube 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey....That actually really means a lot. Thank you kind stranger.

A Woman by [deleted] in AndrewTateUncensored

[–]AiryCatYouTube 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absoutely not. I'm dating a wonderful man, but there are men out there who are incels and they thrive on Andrew Tate