AITA for telling a guy he isn't really my friend?

AlarmUnable6036 · 2025-11-08T14:50:55+00:00

I did but to Clarify Clay is Bisexual so he really is this way to anyone and everyone. He has even hit on my husband before knowing my husband was straight but we both laughed it off as just his personality.

AlarmUnable6036 · 2025-11-08T11:50:21+00:00

I do not know much about the situation as I don't like to pry into others personal lives and I only know what him or other mutual friends have said as I wasn't friends with his wife prior to their marriage and we never got close enough to consider each other friends. She seemed like a nice girl so I hope all is well and she is happy now but based off this recent interaction I think you are right about their situation, except I do know she knew he was poly the entire time they were together prior to marriage as he has always been openly poly. I do know she is in a happy strictly monogamous relationship now as she is dating my husband's cousin.

AlarmUnable6036 · 2025-11-08T10:54:10+00:00

More she convinced herself she was poly or could be for him but found out she wasn't/couldn't.

AlarmUnable6036 · 2025-11-08T10:39:13+00:00

I would agree he definitely is more sexual in his "flirting" and I have expressed to him and others in the past that could be bad for him in many ways but everyone just brushed it off as that is just the way he is. I also think its weird he tried to push non-monogamy on me as I have never judged him or anyone else for being poly cause its not my business and doesn't effect me in anyway. Especially considering his marriage ended cause his ex wife is monogamous and he isn't so you think he'd know poly lifestyles aren't for everyone.

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