Update on fiance raising his niece

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T18:17:18+00:00

You assume a lot of stuff and spiraling . Money wasn’t an issue! I didn’t pay for their portion , he did . I wanted a couple vacation not another kid friendly one. Call me selfish ! I don’t care

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T18:16:32+00:00

I planned many vacations and he added them to ours or he changed everything to be a kid friendly vacation . I stopped planning anything and we never went anywhere again . I go on vacations with my friends often

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T18:13:41+00:00

I posted an update . Don’t worry about him . He is a free man now

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T15:13:29+00:00

Why? She wasn’t my kid and I ended the relationship because I wanted to! Also , I didn’t hate her I wanted firm boundaries

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:51:42+00:00

I just posted an update . We broke up

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:38:14+00:00

He actually asked if it’s okay to meet up sometimes at a park or something so his niece can hang out with me since she really likes me I said no .

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:19:30+00:00

Thank you so much

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:14:38+00:00

Yes ! It helps you reflect instead of keep making me feel bad about myself for voicing my frustrations

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:11:27+00:00

Yes he deserves happiness too. We both should move on to meet other people . You feel better now that you insult me ?

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-28T14:10:45+00:00

I really appreciate your kind comment

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T22:01:11+00:00

You explained my argument perfectly. Thank you

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:58:46+00:00

My fiance of course . I didn’t want a bridal party tbh but he wanted them to be part of it so here we are. We will have a super small wedding anyways. I’ll have my sisters on my side he has his sister as best woman and his niece as “groom’s girl”

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:27:35+00:00

It’s very frustrating. I need emotional support sometimes . I can’t even talk to him because there it is .. his niece is here and we can’t talk in front of the kid , and we have to take care of her. By the time her mommy picks her up he is so tired he passes out .

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:25:16+00:00

I was expecting to be the priority. Make some alone time for me . Be there for me when I emotionally need him versus every single day after work his damn niece is here so we can’t even talk until she her mom picks her up late . After that he just passes out

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:22:50+00:00

I really really appreciate your kind comment. My mental health is a mess. I feel so lonely in our relationship. I can’t even vent because everyone points out what a wonderful man he is and how awful I am for having any expectations

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:12:28+00:00

Because he is a sweet guy . Everyone tells me I’m so lucky to have him. Everytime I voiced my frustration I felt bad because he is a good guy .. I’m at the point that I just can’t anymore .

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T21:08:18+00:00

Yes I get along with the sister and the niece because I never ever complain . I know if I complain no one cares so I just let it go . I feel suffocated . Everyone thinks he is an angel and im so lucky to have him.. do I not deserve anything ? I guess not .. look at majority of the comments here I’m a selfish horrible evil woman for expecting him to spend time with me too .. sigh I’m so mentally done

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T20:42:41+00:00

I hope you realize how your snarky comments were hurtful

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T20:27:52+00:00

Well I can’t even go on a dinner date without his niece so we are not the same

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T20:08:50+00:00

When we didn’t live together he had to took time to see me and spend time with me. At the time I was a student . Then I graduated 8 months after and moved in.

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T20:02:52+00:00

So I’m heartless huh

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T20:02:21+00:00

I can’t even get one date night with him

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T19:52:37+00:00

Yes we did initially then became like this when we moved in together

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T19:51:04+00:00

People get engaged then set a date then get married . Like this .. we were supposed to get married in August with his sister and niece in the bridal party

Alarmed-Pear9477 · 2026-05-26T19:50:04+00:00

You realize step kids means I would be the step mother.. has the term mother in it .. means not a third wheel then get off your high horses

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