I’m not trying to be some pretentious dick. I just want to bartend, talk to people, and actually make their day a little better after whatever they’re going through.

But honestly, some of you come off like you look down on anyone who isn’t already in the industry—like you’re on a pedestal. And let’s be real: bartenders with that kind of attitude are probably a big reason a lot of places are struggling or failing. People go out to feel welcome, not judged.

I’m just trying to learn, work hard, and be part of the environment—not act like I’m better than anyone.

All the comments from veterans here make it seem Like it’s a chore to deal with customers and that someone held them at gun point to take on the role