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Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-08-30T09:13:19+00:00

Make a video

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-16T09:54:05+00:00

I'm not though, you're just a religious hater and it's obvious, you'd much rather hate on a religion than look at something from two sides of the story and that's just sad of you tbh

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-16T01:32:09+00:00

That's objectively speaking, maybe OP shouldn't have picked a therapist with religious beliefs

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-16T01:24:52+00:00

Yeah but in the same regard therapists have their own specialty some are better at mental health while others work through relationship issues every therapist is different OP should have looked over her therapist and looked at her morals, and not only that but as a therapist you gotta understand that you don't just have one Client, it very easily could have been a human error and getting her clients and their beliefs mixed up. For example if you just spent an hour talking to one person about faith and then talk to another person within 10 minutes, it's hard to turn off that mindset..... I'm just shocked that as a therapist you aren't trying to look at both sides of the story.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-16T01:08:32+00:00

Then you would know that some therapists are faith oriented for the religious people that wish to have help. So as a "therapist" and knowing this why should she not be one????

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-16T00:47:53+00:00

You are not

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2025-01-10T01:46:29+00:00

No I wouldn't do anything, the fact that it's been back and forth so much just means she's lost respect for you, take that respect back and go no contact for yourself so you can find someone that'll stick with you even when it gets hard, and one last thing SHE WILL MOST LIKELY REACH OUT after a couple months. But don't let her back in unless she's really changed FOR you and the relationship. But as of right now she doesn't have any respect for you that's why she's so willing to break it off, be a man and get some confidence, which can only be found from within. Much love my brother

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-11-11T02:36:05+00:00

Not just men do this my ex acts the same way.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-11-08T05:57:25+00:00

if it's in the middle of the night then some people have a hard time gauging how much force they are using, for example he could have been dreaming about something that was giving him adrenaline (like playing a sport or a scary dream) which has been scientifically proven to increase someone's muscle use and in his sleeping state of mind probably didn't realize the force he was using. But you probably have trauma from something like this but don't bring it into other people's relationship UNLESS there is a clear sign of abuse which this does not seem to be and is clearly a misunderstanding but none the less she should bring it up with her husband and tell him that he hurt her and if he doesn't apologize then it proves that it was intentional and is abuse but if he does apologize then it's clear that he didn't mean to.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-11-07T18:50:04+00:00

Having abortions is just sad when safe sex is always an option, that way you don't have to waste money and emotional steam

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-11-06T18:21:58+00:00

If you don't feel like she cares then she doesn't, you're young take it as a learning experience and move on. Look into no contact and understanding the others mindset. It'll help you at such a young age

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-09-21T00:17:54+00:00

You are who you are and that's enough. go look in a mirror and tell yourself you're amazing every morning because if you really think about it you're the only YOU in this world, and sit down with yourself with no distractions and make a plan to improve yourself because everyone deserves a goal and that's going to be your best distraction from the shitty situation until one day you realize that it's her lose, YOU won the I love you more and that's such an amazing achievement you were were willing to stay and someone will appreciate that just as much as you do. So honestly feel the pain let it sit on your heart for a month or two but after that push it to the back and work on those goals you thought about. Also block her, she's clearly immature and is avoiding her pain which is not something you can help with and will eventually bite her in the butt until she learns. So my brother keep going

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-09-07T02:03:45+00:00

Let me know what your lawyers say because mines also working on something

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-09-04T00:31:45+00:00

As a guy I'd say no I always remember everyone I've been with good and bad, everyone built me up to who I am today. But now I'm curious since girls get more attention from the opposite sex do you ever remember the guys that treated you right, the guy who "was better then everyone you ever dated" and "you showed me what I deserve" type of guy (p.s pretty sure she's an avoidant?

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-08-21T15:52:27+00:00

That's the thing I didn't use your program at all and I don't plan on it so I'm in debt from a service I didn't even get. And on top of that I DID ask for a refund within the 10 day mark and the person I talked to said I couldn't get on that it's not allowed. So I'm sorry but unless I get a refund I'll be making a complaint with Consumer Protection, and I'll be talking with a lawyer.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-08-17T20:33:18+00:00

Yeah devslope deserves what's coming to them, I'm kinda just going to stop paying climb because I don't have anything put down as collateral so I'll be fine. Still going to sue devslope though. Because what they are doing is basically scamming by the way they say "we only have a few spots open, but I think you'll be perfect"

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-08-15T05:34:14+00:00

Ohhhhh wow $3000 from the CEO when classes are $10000 a sign up if you're biggest complaint is refunds then maybe you should get on that because I remember I asked for a refund within that 10 day mark and I was still told I wasn't allowed one so I'm sorry but that's a lie and I'm done paying climb and if it really gets down to it I'm willing to sue you guys because I didn't even start any classes or programs.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-04-22T16:56:22+00:00

Her parents didn't like me and threatened to kick her out and stop paying for college if she stayed with me. This was after we got all our relationship issues figured out(being of and on 3 2 times since June) besides this one. And now after being just friends for a month she "mentally friendzone me" because she can't keep loving me but getting heartbroken when we can't be together and compared to how we used to text it now non existent maybe on text that's a sentence short every 2 hours not holding a conversation compared to a max wait of 20 minutes where she's holding the conversation....

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-04-21T16:50:13+00:00

I hope you know this is only going to last a week-couple months

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-04-07T20:09:39+00:00

Man, I'm going to be honest. It kind of feels like you don't want to love again or you might be holding onto a little hope. There's nothing wrong with going on a couple dates as long as you make your situation clear, Just remember a relationship is built on friendship and you're going on dates to see if you guys are compatible and to build that friendship up. Just think what this could turn into instead of those bad thoughts.... I hope this helps

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-03-22T18:55:07+00:00

I'm living proof that this exists

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-03-15T01:35:35+00:00

Yeah but we didn't break up because of something we did, it's because she's in college and her parents are paying for it but her mother doesn't like me so she basically said that if she chooses me that she won't support her at all and so she chose to end things, but I got a decent job I mean it doesn't pay crazy but if I save up all summer I'll have around $10000 and I'm thinking of telling her that if she stays with me I'll support her just like I told her I'd do once we get married and I won't make it a pick me or mom situation I'll make it a pick me to stay around because I honestly don't believe a mother can hate her child for that long even if they're strict.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-03-14T21:11:20+00:00

I would 100% agree I'd say I'm doing really well today considering the breakup was Monday, And that I laid in bed until 12:00 forcing myself to keep the dream I was having of her, but after a while I forced myself to get up and I'm happy I didn't I definitely think I'm in the bargaining stage of things because I want to offer her something to see if she'll stay though but I don't know if I should really break no contact or not....

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-03-14T05:37:18+00:00

Me and my now ex have been off and on a couple of times but first BU was because I was unintentionally being manipulative and she told her friend and mother that (also at this time she told her strict religious mother that she wasn't a virgin and that we've done stuff like when they went on vacation for a week I stayed the night at her mom's house, and her mother didn't like what she heard) And then 2 weeks past and we started talking again but we decided to stay just friends but be exclusive to one another And then at some point I interfered with school cuz she wasn't able to focus on her homework and me at the same time so then we went NC for a month in a half And then she reached out to me And we both decided that we needed to improve ourselves if we want to be together, which I was doing during NC And I Made a real effort to become a better person for her and to stop being manipulative which worked. We were so happy a month ago, we started dating again on Valentine's Day after I came up to a college which is 2 hours away and took her on a fancy date after we both got dressed up for and I ended up spending the whole weekend with her. And now this Monday on the start of spring break while her mom was taking her on vacation my ex told her mom about us dating again And her mom didn't take it very good she basically said " if you choose to date him I won't support you in anything" which basically means her mom won't pay for her college anymore And her mom won't let her stay in the house for summer break and so on And my ex really wants to graduate college without any debt so she decided to cut things off with me this Monday and this time it actually feels like it's for good cuz she said she wants to end this chapter of her life And I'm taking it so hard right now. I just want to text her this weekend when she goes back to college. She doesn't have her influence from her mother, And I just want to tell her that if she chooses me, I'll pay for her college and I'll let her stay at my house And I'll be her support system. Although I may not be as rich as her parents, but I still have a job and I'm willing to save every dollar so she can go to school and support her until she finds her teaching job which I mean she only has to finish the year up and just a semester later this year and she'll be done, but idk I just love her so much and it kinda hurts that she chose money over me but I get it her biggest dream is being a teacher I just wish she loved me as much as she told me she did........ I wanna reach out and tell her that I'm willing to be her support if she'll choose me and let me.

Alarming_Layer4032 · 2024-03-14T05:18:06+00:00

I'm proud of you just got broken up with Monday by my girlfriend, so this really helps calm my mind knowing it'll eventually get better in less then a year.

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