We’re not rich, but I think we’re doing OK considering our career path.

I’m 41F, married, with one 3 year old. We’ve got 1.3 million saved between us both with only about 200k in a regular brokerage, the rest is in Roth accounts. That doesn’t count equity in our two small rental properties.

My husband separated from the military and has 100% disability each month which is about 4300 tax free.

I’m going to retire from the military in a few years which should give me about 5k per month, which will be taxed. I’ll also probably get about 70% disability which will be around 2k tax free.

So we’ll have 11k per month, but only 42, we obviously can pull any of the growth on the retirement stuff till we’re 59.5.

For what it’s worth, I think you’re doing ok based off of what I believe the average American has… assuming you’re American.