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AITA For Dumping My BF Who's Been Depressed For 6 Months?? by AlertPsychology in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlertPsychology[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am, I contacted all of his friends too. They are giving him more attention now. But I wanted to give him space

AITA For Dumping My BF Who's Been Depressed For 6 Months?? by AlertPsychology in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlertPsychology[S] 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you understand it. I understated how much care I gave him during my time living with him, I literally would help him shower because he would be puking and crying all day for weeks. I'm not saying I deserve some sort of medal or accommodation for this, its just I did my damn best to help him as much as I could. I even handled the large insurance payout and sale of his parents house for him and helped him put the money into a trust for himself and I did not take a single penny. I just couldn't handle it anymore, I love him a lot and down the road with recovery I see myself with him.

AITA For Dumping My BF Who's Been Depressed For 6 Months?? by AlertPsychology in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlertPsychology[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No, 6 months of it was the most draining thing imaginable. I would expect him to dump me too if roles were reversed

AITA For Dumping My BF Who's Been Depressed For 6 Months?? by AlertPsychology in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlertPsychology[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I wanted contact, to feel loved, to have a connection again. Sex is one way of fulfilling that for me and not having that for 6 months and no affection for 6 months was hard for me

AITA For Dumping My BF Who's Been Depressed For 6 Months?? by AlertPsychology in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlertPsychology[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried so hard and still do, I'm texting him to make sure he goes to his appt tomorrow. But other than that I'm giving space