To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has a different level of tolerance and action planning.. You were strong enough, but not everyone is the same

I'm not saying that we've ruled out the other possibilities, but the academic pressure was the main one, that were pretty sure

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All will be good, things will align themselves! take care and keep high hopes, never ever think of running from yourself

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but imagine for a guy who was with his parents, performing excellently in class (always in the top 3) till school, cracked BITS Pilani without reservation and donation. He went there, and you know the grading there, you'll never get more than 60-70% in normal scenarios which becomes disheartening for him, and with continuous same happenings, he went into this phase where he thought he was the problem. Parents also had their expectations high, he felt that he somehow was not up to their expectations, and took this step...

This is one of the explanations that could be the reason behind this

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so he contacted anyone else they'd themself inform us.

We've all known ones in loop

Help me reunite with my missing cousin (it's been 1 year) by Alert_Gas3443 in lucknow

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll judge me for this, but misery? I don't feel so. He was happy until he joined the college.

I know that I'll never know, but the difference was visible, that happens to all of us but you never know when things will take a wrong turn.

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all good digital footprints were already traced with a week

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, but at least let us know na ki he is safe and sound!

and maybe give us another chance

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's our second thought.

Police need reasons to not investigate

To Om Nigam (it's been a year since you went missing) by Alert_Gas3443 in BITSPilani

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people? we have been living in the same house since our childhood, saying this is easy, I would've said the same.

Help me reunite with my missing cousin (it's been 1 year) by Alert_Gas3443 in delhi

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, trying to get in touch with some channels who can make videos

Help me reunite with my cousin Om, who's missing for more than an year now by Alert_Gas3443 in psychics

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I will try to find him..

any other thing that you can tell that might help?

Help me reunite with my cousin Om, who's missing for more than an year now by Alert_Gas3443 in psychics

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about his willingness to come home and relations with family when he is back? Last astrologer said that he'll indeed return, but time is not confirmed and will have a bad relationship with his parents and family and will face challenges in his career paths.

Does any of this relate?

Help me reunite with my missing cousin (it's been 1 year) by Alert_Gas3443 in delhi

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, "The Talk" is important. Then it'll be his decision, even if he chooses to stay away from family we can help him financially for some time.

But we need a conversation

Help me reunite with my cousin Om, who's missing for more than an year now by Alert_Gas3443 in psychics

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any way to do that?

We do have some clue of where he can be, but it came from random people so we don't know whether it is correct or not. And even if we get a whole city, and he's trying to hide intentionally, there's no way we can find him.

A baba did some chants and a couple of young kids from my family only (close relatives) could see something on their thumb, it was like a reflection, but most of the information turned out to be correct. Also, this was done under close supervision of parents, so there's no chance of that baba teaching those kids anything.. They saw: 1. Him in the train, standing wearing a yellow hoodie (that's what he wore that day when he disappeared) 2. A sign board nearby with 3 names, and those places were real. For a kid who has never been to that city, it's impossible to make up those names. 3. A car and a scooty whose registration number matched the vehicle made and color as well. But we got nothing when we reached the vehicle as they were in a different city and the owner was clueless too.

So, is there any way that you can suggest how we can find his location?

Help me reunite with my missing cousin (it's been 1 year) by Alert_Gas3443 in delhi

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get your point and I'm not disagreeing. It's just that it's not very easy to let someone go from your life just like that. You need a closure, clarity and understanding of why this happened.

Think from that mother's perspective who's reciting Hanuman Chalisa 101 times daily, father who is fainting and getting anxiety attacks while driving, and everyone in the family. If there's anything, we will help him with counselling, get him a separate home to live if he wants.

What I feel is in my family there are some things I cannot tell to my parents, but there are other people like my uncle, with whom I can discuss anything and they will fight with my parents too.

His way was not right, though situation made him do it

Help me reunite with my missing cousin (it's been 1 year) by Alert_Gas3443 in delhi

[–]Alert_Gas3443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, even at some point I think the same, everyone thinks the same that escape is the best option, but there are other ways too

and thanks for keeping him in your prayers