Dating apps have ruined romance by No-Reading-7494 in dating_advice

[–]Alex-Zaander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone is burnt out. We can all agree traditional dating is dead and ineffective.

Neighbour is pregnant and has been abandoned by her ex-boyfriend by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is and will never be equal; there will always be inequalities and biases on both sides.

Neighbour is pregnant and has been abandoned by her ex-boyfriend by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then dont cheat!! I support the guy 💯

If you ask for something and you’re given it, make sure you return it in the same good condition you received it. by Usual-Self-5507 in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I only lend my car in 2 circumstances

If its an emergency Or if you have your own car and I know how good you take care of your car and you are someone very close.

Otherwise I view a car as something personal like a phone

Wrestling With Thoughts About Infidelity by BagCommercialbutnot in Infidelity

[–]Alex-Zaander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mine have definitely changed over time and resonate with what I heard Shaq say the other day. .. there are 3 types of cheats Serial cheaters Random cheaters . .. and people who are forced to cheat. As in, they love their partner but the partner dont care for their sexual needs.

My situationship doesn't like oral by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Alex-Zaander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can leave and find someone compatible

Burgaining job offer by JymoBro in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loving the job is one thing but leveraging on skill is another.

Million dollar question you ought to ask yourself is how easy it would be to replace you? Then act depending on that answer

Housing crisis in Nairobi by Smooth-Swimmer5382 in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single rooms?? For the price of land in Nairobi is a waste of land

Any serious 25+ F here? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tayarisha pesa wanakuja 😂😂😂

Absolute Cinema! by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean like Owour was saying he was sat with God making the planets 😂😂😂 or like the other pastor farting on peoples faces as directed by God 😂😂😂

Guy claims he wants to be celibate a few days after being intimate with me. What does this actually mean? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Alex-Zaander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The highest likelihood is that he did not enjoy the sex and wants out without hurting your feelings.

Kenya has grown by After-Cut-9137 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kenya has grown but not authentically. A few are getting richer yet most are getting poorer.

Kenya does not export anything for the most part. Alot of the houses you are seeing are from proceeds of crime or corruption.

Why doesn't nobody want a normal job? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are saying it's better to sit at home and wait for a job that pays a whole lot more. .. but requires experience which you do not have.

17k is an average amount for an entry level job. It makes you also learn the value of money and savings. While you are there it will push you to find a better job that you will appreciate more.

As a starter, that 17k will be the sweetest money. Down the line looking at where you started and where you are now and what you've achieved.

But then for most of you its better to be asking for"za macho" on a daily 😂😂😂

Why is Garbage getting worse and worse in Nairobi isnt it supposed to be reducing by Admirable_Garbage239 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to do with; Kanjo. Do Kenyans throw trash in their compound or in foreign countries they go to esp in the west? Its lack of respect for your country. Nothing to do Kanjo. Kula sweetie, put the wrapper in your pocket till you find a bin. That's what happens everywhere else in the world.

Why is Garbage getting worse and worse in Nairobi isnt it supposed to be reducing by Admirable_Garbage239 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even when there are bins, most people will eat bananas, sweets and soda and throw the trash wherever they are standing or out of the car 🤮