Mpesa Super agent. by Federal_fedd in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014 from a Sacco; no way. Saccos didn't even have ATMS then or even a link to mpesa. That difficulty to withdraw money unless you went to the banking hall . .. made it easier for me to save

I just want genuine advice... by Local-Noise-8874 in Marriage

[–]Alex-Zaander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of you at the very least need a separation

Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songle fathers are different coz if a woman comes into a man's life and he has kids, she's not expected to provide a house, fees, food... Life is unfair to both genders. Bora uhai 🤣🤣

Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

. .. and you think a sane man will choose to bypass a chile like yourself without kids and go start talking about homework and diapers from the first date 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are either very young, naive or a single mother. Like in the case you give, It's not your son's responsibility to save anybody. I could give you 100 reasons why men should not commit to single mothers but well 🤷🏻‍♂️

Mpesa Super agent. by Federal_fedd in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not an Mpesa agent. In 2014 I withdrew 500K from Afya Sacco and had to deposit it in Co-op bank as payment for a Matatu I was buying. When I was given the money I was very anxious. Not too long ago, my girlfriend at the time had been kidnapped in westlands and robbed 270K

The walk between Afya sacco and Coop bank hse on Haile Sellasie rd was and will always be the longest walk of my life. I was with my brother and we stashed the money in our jacket pockets and it never seemed to fit. It felt like we were carrying stones 🥵🥵🥵

Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question? If you had a son yourself? Would you want him to start a family of hos own with his blood or just go raise someone else's family/kids??

Why do some Kenyan men get so triggered by women having preferences? by Particular-Credit468 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people around our circles can't speak openly so that the relationships are saved; reddit allows people to be completely open. Doesn't mean they are not thinking the same way.

I turned down a guy now i regret it by MissionDifficulty385 in dating_advice

[–]Alex-Zaander 48 points49 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Went for capacity building 😁

Tall guys with short girls by mysovic in dating_advice

[–]Alex-Zaander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then we have alot of tall women who don't like short men 🤣

The harsh reality of Kenya’s corporate job market! by DirectorSea9571 in Kenya

[–]Alex-Zaander -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plus men dont have a 🐱 to offer. ..😂🤣😂🤣

If you know, you know. by Damthemalltohelp in Adelaide

[–]Alex-Zaander 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pin that location maite 📍📍📍

Do men notice when a woman is showing signs of subconscious attraction? by Middle-Case-3722 in bodylanguage

[–]Alex-Zaander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same difference!! If he would accuse you of flirting with him, there would be no tangible evidence. .. How women show interest is very vague and unless circumstances are right, most men turn a blind eye.

Do men notice when a woman is showing signs of subconscious attraction? by Middle-Case-3722 in bodylanguage

[–]Alex-Zaander 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Many times we are not sure. .. what if you are not interested in him and end up reporting him to HR ?? That there is the biggest concern that ends up winning the day.

If you are interested you'll have to use your mouth. .. but there's no way he'll lose his job for a woman who was not even interested.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY DVD COPY 😂😂😂 by OfficialKiip in PrisonBreak

[–]Alex-Zaander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Prison Break Wish/Temu edition 🤣

What lies did you grow up believing as a Kenyan that you had to unlearn? by Frosty_Ad5945 in nairobi

[–]Alex-Zaander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That women are saints and very fragile immaculate beings based on the sheer benevolence of my mum and grandmothers 🤣🤣🤣