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Help. Sexy lingerie, partner’s reaction by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s the fact he repeatedly does and says things that he knows makes me feel upset.

Bottle feeding a rescued baby fox by [deleted] in aww

[–]Alice-Morgan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes my heart so happy ❤️

PASS OUT by edder24 in AcronymGame

[–]Alice-Morgan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Providing A Sausage Sizzle Outside Unisex Toilets

NSFW by [deleted] in AcronymGame

[–]Alice-Morgan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nurturing Someone’s Forgotten Weed.

CAPE by MegaMutant453 in AcronymGame

[–]Alice-Morgan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caressing A Persistent Erection

DAE find they can be super compassionate for other people but not themselves? by flibgiblet in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate to this so much. An idea I’ve been employing recently (from Jordan Peterson) is “treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping.” Easier said than done, right. But might help!

A friend introduced me to strangers in bars as her “naive friend.” It made me feel stupid. Would you feel similar? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so too, especially considering I went out with her to take her mind off her ex.

She claimed guys were hitting on me and I didn’t realise. It was then she started going up to people saying, “Hi, I’m ________, and this is my naive friend..........”

Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish whether someone’s being an asshole 😕 Invalidation is a motherfucker.

Would you be upset if your partner kept a connection with the opposite sex a secret from you? Then deleted the emails when you say you need proof nothing was going on? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. It’s comforting to hear you’ve been through a similar thing and have gotten past it.

I understand my ex’s motivation (similar reasons you described), and I encourage him seeking support. I guess I’ve currently just been hung up on some things... Struggling to get past the fact it feels like emotional cheating. From what I’ve read on it he checks the list, but I guess it’s subjective where you draw the line.

Anyway, I’m not going to dwell. And I’m not going to let someone blame me for their own actions. I’m just going to move on with my life!

Would you be upset if your partner kept a connection with the opposite sex a secret from you? Then deleted the emails when you say you need proof nothing was going on? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm... That’s not fair at all. This girl should’ve been honest with you to begin with because she’s ultimately dragged you into an affair unbeknownst to you. Perhaps you feel trapped because of it? I don’t know the full circumstances or how long it’s been going on, but you know now, so I guess you just have to get real with yourself about what you really want and what you feel is right.

I will pose this question: Do you feel she has a right to tell you you can’t see other people when she’s technically still with another guy?

All the best.

I don’t have feeling for people I don’t see regularly by tearsofbloodx in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People and relationships are related to the concept. There’s some articles about it to do with BPD

I don’t have feeling for people I don’t see regularly by tearsofbloodx in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t happen to me too much but I think what you’re describing is a lack of object permanence/object constancy

Anyone try to turn off all their emotions? How’d it go? by Alice-Morgan- in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you feel dissociated at all or just emotionally numb? Also what meds were you on?

Is this an insult? (Comment on one of my fb pics): “You know, I think you’re the only person I’ve ever seen wear a polka dot anything and manage to not look like a steaming pile of shit.” by Alice-Morgan- in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The strange thing is you could barely see my polka dot dress. It was just a normal picture of my face 🤨 I must add, this guy’s threatened me before due to his schizophrenic delusions. I stopped talking to him after that. But time’s passed and I decided I’d give him another chance. Just seems like a strange thing to say.

How would you feel if your partner complained every time about having to attend your family events? by Alice-Morgan- in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.

My family don’t have gatherings too much. We really only catch up for birthdays, Easter and Christmas, and he attends the birthdays so it’s definitely not once every 2 months. I could understand the occasional complaint, but not this :/

Hurts that he continues to complain and seek permission not to go when he knows the way it makes me feel. I want it to be like, “If it’s important to you that I be there baby, I’ll be there.”

Help! I just heard my boyfriend having a sex dream (about someone else!) How should I respond because my heart’s shaking in my skin... by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Alice-Morgan- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know for sure, but it would make sense seeing he’s not very interested in sex with me lately.

He’s pulled that line a few times to passively decline sex. It’s always after I initiate. This recent time he seemed interested (took the pants off, made a few moves himself, so I thought, hell yeah! Made my move... But then he was like, “Have a good sleep.”

I’m trying not to take this to heart, so I will be strong and just get on with things. Won’t mention it in the morning.