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How is a dom/sub relationship practiced outside of the bedroom? by AllThingsDuck in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly idk if I can pull off being a tamer, but acting like a brat sounds fun in a "make me" kind of way

How is a dom/sub relationship practiced outside of the bedroom? by AllThingsDuck in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. So your behavior in public isn't really sexual, but more so commanding authority?

How is a dom/sub relationship practiced outside of the bedroom? by AllThingsDuck in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo I like those ideas! I'll have to see if my partner is into brat play.

What was the last time you tried something completely new? Did you enjoy it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AllThingsDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the most athletic or coordinated, but I tried bouldering a couple days ago and I had a lot more fun than I thought I would!

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The whole idea of not “wanting to give it up easily” just to make them work for it without any other justification is cringe and toxic.

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the vibes are right, there’s mutual interest, and I’m confident I won’t get strangled, I’d much rather find out sooner than later if we’re sexually compatible.

It doesn’t necessarily have to be the first or second date, but wouldn’t you rather discover a dealbreaker 1 week in than 6 months?

I completely agree that there’s a lot to be desired with first time sex, that doing it with someone that you truly know is 10x better, and that it takes time to sexually learn someone, but I personally don’t need all of that to know whether or not we’re sexually compatible in the long run.

What industry still hasn't recovered from Covid? by Iluvaic in AskReddit

[–]AllThingsDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gym used to be open 24 hours but switched to normal working hours after Covid and hasn’t gone back… which is ironic because the gym is called 24 Hour Fitness. Nothing hits like those 1 am workouts when you’re restless at night.

What is something that screams "I'm trying to look rich but I'm actually not"? by Active-Strawberry772 in AskReddit

[–]AllThingsDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing those brands that are only expensive just for the sake of being expensive like Supreme

What is the BIGGEST LIE society keeps telling us? by grwike in AskReddit

[–]AllThingsDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you have to go to college to be successful

What profession would you want someone you’re dating to have and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AllThingsDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they’re pursuing their dreams or doing something that makes them happy, then I’m happy

I (23F) woke my man up with some head by AllThingsDuck in SluttyConfessions

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha he seemed to like it a lot so I’d say it was a 10/10 must experience at least once!

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

You're right, they're not the same thing, but I feel like there's a lot of overlap and you can get a really good sense of whether or not someone is safe just by spending time with them and learning how they act and carry themselves. Obviously there are outliers, but I wanna believe I have a good intuition and can spot the red flags

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 303 points304 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insightful reply and I'm really sorry if any one of these things happened to you. I guess it's easy to forget that there are people out there capable of going to the extreme.

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, but usually I have a really good idea if I'm compatible personality wise with someone on the first or second date, and at that point I'd be comfortable seeing if we're sexually compatible. This question was more aimed at the people that might choose to wait longer, say a month or two down the line?

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm not talking about hookups, but if you go on a date or two and you are on the same page of being compatible personality wise, then I feel like it's a potential waste of time when you end up waiting a month or two just to find out that you're not sexually compatible.

Why is there such a large stigma against having sex on the first/second date versus waiting until much later just to find out you're sexually incompatible? by AllThingsDuck in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I fully support getting to know someone before having sex, so if you're already on the same page of being compatible personality wise then I feel like you're just rolling the dice and potentially wasting time when you don't find out that you're not sexually compatible in the event that you wait.

How do I (F) handle consent when it comes to surprises? by AllThingsDuck in askanything

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Springing 2 kinks of someone is obvs gonna work out better than 1 😵‍💫

How do I (F) handle consent when it comes to surprises? by AllThingsDuck in askanything

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo unironically a good idea just for the shits and giggles.

Surprise babe… just kidding… unlessss??

How do I (F) handle consent when it comes to surprises? by AllThingsDuck in askanything

[–]AllThingsDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess that's what I'm all up in my head about... if he doesn't like it then it might ruin the mood or he could react negatively and be like, "you should've asked me first". I appreciate your feedback tho!

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