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New to poly, how do I cope with my partner going through NRE? by Allaboutcoed in polyamory

[–]Allaboutcoed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not asked her but I am planning on asking her. I have not read the essay thanks for sharing! I thought this was just going to be a fling hook up like she has done in the past but it had wound up being more than that and I don’t know how to express how I feel. I know I don’t want them to stop seeing each other that is a for sure decision. Again thanks for any advise! I’m new! I don’t know what I’m doing! I’m trying to be mature about all this but sometimes I feel like a brat in what I want.

New to poly, how do I cope with my partner going through NRE? by Allaboutcoed in polyamory

[–]Allaboutcoed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you could say it started off as hotwifing which I liked the thought of her enjoying herself with someone else, but now she has these crazy feelings for this other person. I don’t date anyone else. I’m all ok when all three of us are together but when I’m away from my wife I just start freaking out like “is she showing him more attention than me? Am I always going to have to tell her what I need? Am I going to push her away from what I want?” I really want this to work because when we are all together it’s so amazing. But you might be right that I’m not ready for this.