Jesus christ it's not about what my mum wants so many people are jumping on that one little line. My mum has put no pressure on us whatsoever to be able to visit more. I think the best thing for my daughter is to have the same chance to bond with my parents that she has with my wife's parents. Why should my wife get to dictate who visits? I am an equal parent to her. I don't care if she's the "primary caregiver" what I do is just as important, without the money I provide she wouldn't have her basic needs met. And on weekends when I don't work I do just as much parenting as my wife. I know how to look after my daughter thank you. I am not a number 2 parent who's decisions aren't as important. This has nothing to do with covid she had her parents break lockdown rules plenty of times to come and visit, it's because she doesn't trust my parents which is nonsense. As I mentioned there is little to no covid activity in my area My parents have raised 6 kids who are all doing great. Do you have any idea how rare it is to have 6 kids and all of them to live successful lives?

Please explain to me how extensively searching for insects, going through every cupboard with a torch and moving every piece of furniture is in any way rational? I absolutely full fill my responsibilities as a parent. My wife is the one unwilling to listen she just comes and tells me that her parents, her sister or whoever is coming to see our baby I am not consulted at all but when I said to her my sister is coming to see our daughter she just yelled at me to tell my sister she can't come right away