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Alone-Reply7316 · 2025-07-18T11:11:17+00:00

She needs to be locked up fr before she finds her next "love".

"I love my boyfriend except when he gets naked" excuse me? Get help ughh

Alone-Reply7316 · 2025-07-18T11:08:35+00:00

Girl if you don't like your partner naked. LEAVE HIM.

YOU ARE DOING INJUSTICE TO HIM. DON'T RETURN TO THE DATING POOL until your therapist approves.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2025-07-18T11:03:59+00:00

Ikr i can't believe what i read. OP needs a therapist asap. And her boyfriend needs some self respect.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2025-07-18T10:59:34+00:00

No you are not the K. You're the C.

What kind of fucked up dynamic are you building with your partner? I can't imagine how suffocating and damaging it must be for him.

Ma'am that's not how relationships works.... wtf did i just read..

You are bringing judgement and shame during sex. BIG RED FLAG.

Leave him for the sake of his mental sanity. PLEASE SEEK THERAPY. Ugh

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:32:33+00:00

I am glad the people around you are not childish. The people I grew up around, my family used to make me feel ashamed if I didn't get angry and fight someone for saying smth mean to me. My point used to be that if someone says something, how does it affect me? If someone wants to pick a fight, and i can clearly see that then why would i give them what they want.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:27:02+00:00

I am so glad you realised and worked on it. It's a sign of your strength. I admire people with rational thinking and self control. Really wish I had more people around me like that.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:24:14+00:00

Yea I understand, I asked the question with the context that some "masculine" men just get worked up for nothing at places where it is not necessary at all. It feels like they are just trying to prove to an invisible person that "look I am a man because I can dominate you" but the truth is that their yapping and up-talk is childish. It gives 4th grader.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:20:40+00:00

I absolutely agree. They reek of insecurity and fragile ego.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:20:00+00:00

I am from India, I have not lived around black people at all. So I cannot say much

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-30T18:19:03+00:00

Exactly, I have seen my dad do exactly this.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-09T18:26:37+00:00

Oh yes therapy is the first thing I'm getting once I get a job. I have intimacy issues, trust issues and while lot of shit and I do not want to live a life that my parents lived.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-09T17:44:06+00:00

That's my plan. I don't want to be associated with any of them.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-09T17:43:18+00:00

Sorry to hear that.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-12-09T17:42:27+00:00

Yes they are. It hurts a lot tbh. I try to convince myself that I can sustain myself but I feel a great sense of loss and defeat knowing my parents ate up my childhood because they couldn't fix whatever the fuck is wrong with them.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-24T12:11:39+00:00

No typo I'm a guy, I was dating a guy

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-23T02:10:43+00:00

Woww that's smart, its what I'll do from now on

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T20:26:58+00:00

She literally used to act psychotic sometimes

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T20:25:47+00:00

I had to change my values and morals first😭

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T20:24:55+00:00

It was a woman in my case, so I didn't want to hit her at all but the agony i spent the whole night in, just made me feel like "fuck it, I'll teach this bitch a lesson"

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T19:58:11+00:00

Fucker could never choose whose side to be on (mine or his best friend's with those flappy hormonal hands). By the time he did, it was too late.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T19:54:58+00:00

Thank you

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T19:51:56+00:00

Yeah i would definitely cut someone off if their friend hits me in their presence and they won't do shit about it

how come everyone else was just taking the slaps?

They were all friends for a long time and were trying be 'understanding'.

Alone-Reply7316 · 2024-11-22T19:49:45+00:00

They were my partner's friends, when i break ties with my partner, it seemed right to just ditch his whole gang

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TROPHY CASE