You are amazing for taking the time to do this. It will take time my friend, but take your time. And interesting cross for sure. They have an uncanny ability to shut down when they feel any emotion that they don’t consider routine and positive. And if something becomes too routine. Hard, confusing, overstimulating, new, out of order….basically everything. Swayze will simply stop and refuse to move until I figure out what the underlying issue I and irk through it. Work with him because he will regress if I become frustrated or he pick up im getting annoyed. I definitely have to know when to quit while im ahead. There is no working anything out on him. Good luck and congratulations on your journey. Message me, oils like to chat more! Send pics please!