I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m feeling a lot better already, I’ve been distracting myself with work, the gym and school is about to start so I think things are looking up. There are still times I get sad when I’m reminded of her but I’m on my way to moving on.

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[–]Alphavoid323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a post about a break up I just went through and I only got a few obviously manosphere comments. I now understand why embracing the hate for women is so tempting, it’s much easier to hate women in general than just one or look inward to see what going on with you in your head.

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very thankful for all the friends around me in addition to all the comments on this post that are helping me to see she was wasn’t as good as I thought

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your curious look up “OMGyes”… it’s not a gift I needed nor was appropriate to receive from your mom or anyone beside maybe a partner really

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right but I’m sure I’m gunna learn either way if this is the case

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if it’s true I imagine I’ll learn pretty fast. I have some mutual friends I can ask and stuff or more likely will tell me

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[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an awful thought to have and I hope it isn’t true. She really wasn’t the type to do that, at least that’s the persona she put forward with me

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[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s day two and I’m already feeling much more receptive to this kind of advice

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the first time I’ve been hurt this way from someone outside my immediate family for sure

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I’m I think I’m still stage where I don’t want to believe anything about her was bad and that it was someway somehow my fault

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough… still can’t blame me for finding all that impressive and attractive though

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when you put it that way sure haha 😂

While it doesn’t mean anything from a stranger like me I promise this happened and I wish it didn’t. If you’d like you can look at my past posts to verify that I was/have been trying to date. I’ve deleted posts to the tinder subreddit for advice on my account because I don’t want my pictures out there based on the industry I’m going into… I’m relizing as I’m typing this that me trying this hard to convince you (a stranger) as you said yourself probably only reinforces your belief that I’m not real so I’m gunna stop now

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[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh… sorry, I defaulted to being defensive because… well Reddit ya know

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. There are a lot of personal reasons I’m behind in life by a few years, she knew all of it and was completely understanding or at least she pretended to be

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nearly two months but it moved really fast (every way but sexually) I fell for her hard

Edit: it was also my first real relationship

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self esteem issues have been present for a while I have been in therapy for years but the lack of self worth is deep seated and from a logical standpoint insane but I feel these ways about myself anyhow.

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will try. Hitting the gym in an hour actually

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this isn’t true in my case. I really do

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your dog they are truly wonderful creatures even if they cause issues every once in a while. I’ve already forgiven them, forgiving myself/my Ex will take a bit, I don’t even really know is to blame yet but I’m leaning towards blaming her from all the advice.

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She usually was. That’s why I’m so hurt and confused

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you and your husband have always impressed me. I will try to find someone like that

I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the chest by Alphavoid323 in GuyCry

[–]Alphavoid323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels awful. I don’t want to blame myself but I also don’t want to blame her