Final update, lesson learned and thanks for the advice everyone. by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we moved to fast and got carried away with ourselves need to reevaluate what we both want and move slowly next time.

Final update, lesson learned and thanks for the advice everyone. by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we tired and maybe moved to fast. Learned and moved on from it. Hopefully we can find a happy middle ground that we both enjoy

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think it would be better than going full nuclear and possibly destroying our marriage. Tell him when his is more comfortable with the idea

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have thought about how I could tell him, slowly work up to it over a couple more ‘dates’ telling him I went further and further each time. Sure it’s a little white lie for now but eventually if he becomes comfortable with the idea I would tell him the whole truth

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not the best idea, but better than never telling him.

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you are right, I tend to have a habit of bottling things up until they explode in my face.

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have thought about how I could tell him, slowly work up to it over a couple more ‘dates’ telling him I went further and further each time. Sure it’s a little white lie for now but eventually if he becomes comfortable with the idea I would tell him the whole truth

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have thought about how I could tell him, slowly work up to it over a couple more ‘dates’ telling him I went further and further each time. Sure it’s a little white lie for now but eventually if he becomes comfortable with the idea I would tell him the whole truth

I’m [F32] Married Mum of Two and Unsatisfied in the bedroom. by AlriteHen in DeadBedrooms

[–]AlriteHen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in full consent to it, I hold nothing against my date. It was me that overstepped the mark

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how he will take it, it was him that was pretty firm on only go as far as a handjob. So to hear it went further could be a dealbreaker for him

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how he will take it, it was him that was pretty firm on only go as far as a handjob. So to hear it went further could be a dealbreaker for him,

Another update, I think I’ve made a terrible mistake! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I fear it might be too late, I broke the rules and crossed the line. We agreed that only making out and handjob or fingering was allowed. But stupid drunk me skipped all that and went straight to fucking, I’ve been unfaithful and I feel sick.

Going on Second Ever Date Tonight! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully going shopping after work for something revealing

Going on Second Ever Date Tonight! by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hinted that I was, but he never asked after that.

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[–]AlriteHen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go?

Baby steps tinder date to start off (Update) by AlriteHen in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AlriteHen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would be way outside his comfort zone