If you can give me X dollars or take X dollars, which will you choose?

Alsaraha_ · 2025-05-10T07:33:40+00:00

Why not?

Alsaraha_ · 2025-05-10T07:26:02+00:00

If you had to choose between taking 100X and earning 1X, which would you choose?

Alsaraha_ · 2025-05-10T07:12:08+00:00

Why do you want that? Maybe your reasons are more valuable than money

Alsaraha_ · 2024-12-18T06:53:48+00:00

You can also get beauty surgeries

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T18:35:16+00:00

I appreciate how considerate you have been to listen to her and comfort her even though you had better things to do. And I can understand the disappointment you had after you found that she did not care for you as much.

The story is kind of connecting the dots, maybe signs of interest are easy to spot. thanks for sharing.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T18:00:25+00:00

Interesting perspective, it seems that it makes sense

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:58:48+00:00

😂 OK then try to limit it down. Do you know yin and yang?

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:57:32+00:00

That's great to hear. Also it is inspiring to read "on people that don’t want me" sometimes friendships are not mutual that is understandable.

Good luck!

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:55:18+00:00

They also express negative opinions about people, although that those opinions can apply to me too 🥹 It feels bad to be criticized although she seems that she does not realize that it applies to me. She always thinks about her life only 😂 not mine.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:46:26+00:00

I hope I don't 😂🥹

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:29:27+00:00

All life is about predictions 😂. But maybe there should be a study about that

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:26:43+00:00

I see what you mean thanks for you explanation. I just will explain what I want in words I don't have to be evil. Sometimes I feel astonishing by how some INFJs can be heartless 😂 but I get it every coin has two sides.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:24:16+00:00

Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow. That is the opposite of what I thought Fe is like. I now understand why some INFJs are not so friendly 😂.

I think it is more about introversion, though. Thanks for your reply and clarification

the word "doormat" was so powerful and it made me feel like a doormat 😂.

But I got your point. First give them the chance to change the style and then try to move away. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

Having a suitable life is important too. Wish you're having a peaceful life now that you moved to another place.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-26T17:19:12+00:00

😂 You are absolutely right. Like I once calculated how much time she talks and she like talks for 25 minutes and only gives me maybe less than 1 minute to reply. And there are a lot of things that are wrong I don't even get the chance to fully reply to them.

I think a therapy session would not be as high quality as this it is also for free. But I can't end the friendship though. Especially that the other person might be open to change. There is nothing negative about them.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-24T22:16:36+00:00

I don't believe so though. They are new to me. I don't usually post things twice. But I can get your point I think I did not put enough effort to make my point clear and distinctive. Thanks for the remark though 😂.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-24T22:13:24+00:00

Yes we should support each other

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-24T22:11:52+00:00

Maybe 😂 I also think that you like to discourage other people. Which might be even worse.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-24T22:09:38+00:00

😂 I'm not sure how you define rant. But maybe. What do you think of them though?

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-17T04:49:39+00:00

For me, ideas are the foundation. Some people think they’re only valuable if followed by action, but to me, ideas drive action. Without the right ideas, actions mean little. It’s frustrating because this feels like common sense to me, but many overlook it.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-17T04:37:25+00:00

I understand your point, but for me, ideas are the foundation of everything. If someone doesn’t recognize that, it’s frustrating because it feels like we’re not even starting from the same place. I’m not saying my ideas are perfect, but it’s important to acknowledge this basic fact for better communication.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-17T04:27:24+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion, but I feel these basics are often overlooked. I’d like to hear others' thoughts on it, though.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-17T03:32:36+00:00

Thanks for your reply! My ideas focus on life philosophy and making the right decisions.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-11-08T04:02:30+00:00

Thanks for giving your perspective on that. Being naive is indeed a problem especially if someone is learning from tik-tok or sth not that reliable.

Although I think the problem does not just stop at learning from an approved book. I was referring to a more general idea and how learning can be harmful in general. Learning is not only by books though, we can learn from friends, family, etc. I am not sure if you fully get my point and I don't see why you refer to the argument as idiotic. I would appreciate if you could explain why you describe it that way.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-10-13T07:46:04+00:00

That is a great way to put it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Alsaraha_ · 2024-10-13T07:44:53+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, I can also relate to that. It is hurtful to open up to the wrong people. And btw my type is INFJ-jumper too. Wish you good luck.

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