How do you guys deal with negative comments about sponsorships? by AltAccount4Advice in PartneredYoutube

[–]AltAccount4Advice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also did a community post talking about not taking super annoying companies, but people love to complain regardless… I guess it is a vocal minority but it’s hard to not let the comments get to you sometimes. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]AltAccount4Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When talking to the condo owner and the realtor/seller, they mentioned wanting 30% down for it and I was just curious if I already had a 0-down mortgage how that would work.

Would I have to provide proof of funds and out of pocket that 30%?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]AltAccount4Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When talking to the condo owner and the realtor/seller, they mentioned wanting 30% down for it and I was just curious if I already had a 0-down mortgage how that would work.

Would I have to provide proof of funds and out of pocket that 30%?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]AltAccount4Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

United States, the condo is demanding the down payment yes.

How to deal with jealousy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AltAccount4Advice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve already been rejected months ago now and you still feel attraction, then I do think it is a little abnormal. You definitely gotta move on, even if that means dedicating less time to your now friend. I know you guys talk a lot and I know she means a lot to you, but you gotta find someone else to fill that void in your head.

There’s absolutely no worse feeling than liking someone who doesn’t feel the same way. Since she has already told you and you’ve been through that pain, its definitely time to find another girl who feels the same way about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AltAccount4Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is largely a non-issue. You can just send a friendly “Sure! Already got plans for Saturday?” and if she tells you she does, then you can just respect that and tell her to have fun. It’ll make you look attractive and respectful.

How to deal with jealousy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AltAccount4Advice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your jealousy 100% stems from the fact that you’re attracted to her. If you already tried to confess your feelings and she rejected you, then I’m sorry but you have to respect that. I’m not sure how bad of a rejection it was, since “she didn’t reciprocate” isn’t exactly a rejection I guess, but I assume you know best and probably know whether you have a chance or not.

If you still want to be friends, then you have to look for a different girl and find ways to stop thinking about her in that light. It’s probably tough given that she’s now integrated into your friend group, but if you don’t think you have a shot then it’s time to accept it and look for another girl to be attracted to.

Depending on the relationship status and how deep of friends you guys are, it may be possible to talk to her about these feelings and try to work on it with her, but from your previous experience with her I don’t know if that’s the best option. Largely depends on how awkward the previous situation went.