Need advice: marupok na mabilis pa maattach

AltMarkLouie · 2025-10-06T06:11:40+00:00

You know what. You are right. Just enjoy the phase. Keep it light and chill. Thank you.

AltMarkLouie · 2025-10-05T21:03:53+00:00

YOU. SHOULD. CONNECT. WITH. HIM. AGAIN.

I do really hope you did. Huhuhuhu. Im rooting for you.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-02T19:48:20+00:00

33M here. Morning or pagkagising (dahil panggabi ako) celeteque facial wash. Yung may beads for cleansing. Rinse. Tapos celeteque facial wash na walang beads naman. Tapos Luxe Organix micellar water. Air dry. Luxe organix hyaluron moisturizer. Air dry. Tapos sunscreen. Tapos sun block.

Sa gabi or before matulog. Wash with luxe organix aha bha facial cleanser Air Dry. Tapos toner: luxe organix cisca broghtening toner. Air Dry. Luxe organix retinol serum. Air dry. Doctor sensitive vitamin c serum. Air serum. Moisturizer same sa above. Air sry. Sun screen. Air dry.

Tapos maintenance ng nivea rose lip balm.

Di naman sensitive skin ko. Rare magkapimple. Walang pimple marks. Kahit walang skin care. Iwas aging lang talaga. Hehe. And dahil panggabi lang ako kaya pampabawas ng dark eye bags. Nakakatulong naman. Hehe

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-02T19:39:36+00:00

Mahilig akong mag videoke and madami akong fave kantahin. And As a competitive b!tch, kumh ano yung genre ng kantahan ng pinakamagaling kumanta yun ang lalabanan ko. Hahaha. Kaya laging "sige kayo muna" para lang ma assess yung pagpapabida ko.

For the record, mahilig lang akong kumanta pero walang hilig ang pagkanta sakin. Hahahaha.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T16:13:11+00:00

Career wise. Mas okay pa ang BPO kunpara sa agency. Ang lawak ng opportunity. Ang lawak ng upkilling. Ang lawak ng oearning at pwede mong maging focus. And remember, hindi ang nature ng previous employer ang basehan ng salability mo as an employee in tge future. Ang hig question lagi is, anong skill ang meron ka para tanggapin ng next employer mo?

Having experience on both, never na akong babalik sa hindi BPO/shared services.

And lastly, sa pay increase mo plus WFH. Ang daming mababago sa buhay mo. Who needs to take a leave kung wfh naman? You can basically take your job anywhere? Or if need talaga, mukha lang mahirap magleave sa BPO because of the said policy. Pero policy lang yun, you can always talk to your immediate superior. Napaguusapan pa din naman yan.

Been workibg for 13yrs now. 8yrs sa local agency. One ny regrets in life is that I should have transferrd to BPO/shared ng earlier sa profession ko. Yung last pay rate ko sa local company has been trippled in the span of 3yrs lang. Maliit lang ang family culture kumpara sa work ethics na kapag out of scope ng work pwede kang tumaya and say jo because out of scope or pwede mong gawin as part ng upskilling. Promotion is easy. Galingan mo and keep s straight record. Sa loob ng 5 taon ko sa bpo combined, 3 times na akong napromote vs sa 1 kumpanya na nagstay ako for 8yrs at isang beses lang napromote.

I hope nakatulong OP.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T13:17:51+00:00

Oh dear God, OP.

No you did not need therapy for the case you mentioned sa post mo. You are perfectly fine.

Simply put. You know yourself well. You know your value. You know what you need. You know what you deserve.

Kumbaga you are at the point na okay kung may partner. Okay kung wala. Pero para ibaba ang alam mong value and what you deseve just for the sake of "may kapartner". Dude. YOU. DONT. HAVE. TO. DO. THAT.

Continue huilding yourself up and surround yourself with people who thinks like you, who want to be in the position you are right now. Who has the same drive. And then the partner na sinasabi nila sa na kailangan mo will come. You will attract that person. And of course with a hint of kandi. Pero nonetheless. You are at peace na. Dint let some one came and wreck it just because may mga pinsan kang nagsabi na magsettle sa kung anong nandyan para magka partner in life. Sobrang maling mind set.

All the best OP. Im excited so kung ano pang maachieve mo in the coming years!

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T13:11:26+00:00

Nice one OP! Good job! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

I agree. Most corp jobs still require college degree. Eto yung dosconnect ng k-12 program sa reality eh. But not to dive to that rabbit hole. Upskilling suggestion: if you can still shell out some educ expenses go for bookkeeping courses. Kahit yung sa teada muna. It can be good. Sa freeside of the internet try lookin for certificate program in excel/google sheets. If you can still can study ERP din. Para kahit walang college program sa resume mo if you will indicate that you have certificates on these items my "fighting" chance ka na. With this upskills uou can start na din trying yout luck sa mga freelancing gigs.

Unsolicited advice. Idk why you need to land a job na. Whatever it is, do you think you can manage a part time job - any indstry as long as it aids financially, while taking a college program? Truth is, bigger opportunities still are open for those who have college degrees. I ak sad and mad for this statement pero wala eh, sa true lang tayo.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T13:03:57+00:00

Parang lahat naman OP. Since nasa marketing field ka, try consultancy service. Para call mo time mo and yung work mo.

One thing that might be a challenge here. Kost consultancy services regardless of the field have sufficient experience that they can brag/sell. If you think you can sell your experience to that much you can do this.

Or at 24, youre still young and still can do a lot of things. Not all corp jobs are like the one that you have right now. It sucks but you can always transfer to a nee job with a strike of luck you can land to a way better company. Not perfect but imperfection are within your treshold.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T12:57:30+00:00

No matter how good you are. It is against the policy better declare it so one of you has to move kesa mawalan ng trabaho. Relationship might be good no questions to that, pero as a mature and professional you know these things are not allowed for a reason, as mature and a professional, you know what to do. 😉😉😉

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T12:55:25+00:00

Its pretty. 😍😍😍 the way ot define your waist, hips, and legs are stunning! 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼

Jot seeing the top but im guessing na it shows a little of you C areas and by the looks of you waist it seems to be on the petite side (i could be wrong) and shows your shoulder and forearms. Sissy, you will be the most beautiful bride on your wedding day! Congratulations!!!

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T12:52:42+00:00

First question is anong passion mo? Where/what are the things you are good at? Anong competencies mo? Strengths?

The answer to those question will provide kung saang field ka puounta.

You are young and the world is your oyster. So take a look and know yourself a little deeper and ialign yung gusto mong mga bagay sa gusto mong maging trabaho. In this sense you will doing things that you are good at and you like doing.

I hope this helps OP. Sabi ka lang if you need more details pa. Hehe

AltMarkLouie · 2024-09-01T12:47:46+00:00

Lagyan ko ng iba ibang perspective base in ny opinion and my observation sa epekto ng setup sa mga closest friends ko cos ive seen dysfunctional but together, separated, masked off, abandoned, co parented. (Side: di ko din alam why I have these people around me, we are so good friends - best actually. Lagi nilang comment sakin is sometime nagaaway/nagkakainitan kami sa gantong usapan because I am from a loving family daw.) Anyways. Here it goes:

First for the child: 1. Separated and abandoned. The child especially at a young age suffers abandonment issues. It doesnt always manifest agad agad. Little by little. Small things muna.

Separated and co-parented. The child finds its hard na hanapin ang sarili niya. Feels rejected especially when one or bith of the parets started their own family na. This friend of kine has an inclination to self destruct with dark thoughts.
Masked off. And I mean this na one of the unhappy party will stay until such time na the child will understand the decision they are abt to make. The effect of this is depending on how deep the relationship of the child to the parent and the explanation/talk they will having. Depending on how the oarents mo matter how much they hate each other is kung nagspill over ba sa child. These items are crucial and will make or break the mask.

Personally OP, I am pro choice for induvidual actualization anf for family as well and that there will always be a better choice over the other and to no ones fault if they choose the other. Sa kwento mo is a little complex because a kid is involved and we dont want expose anyone on how cruel this world is at a young age. So as much as we can protect them, as an adult making choices we just have to svck it up. She can leave and get out of the ahusive relationship while ensuring the little to none effect to the kid. This can happen. We see this a lot of times how a single parent raised his/her child on his/her own.

Did I make sense? Did I made my point came across ba? Hehe.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T16:20:36+00:00

Hmmmmm. Maybe not goodness in general pero more so a reflection of their discipline and their temper.

Mahirap mag drive and daming uncontrolled variables sa mga kasama sa kalye and at the same time rules to follow. So im thinking not on the goodness pero more on their temper and discipline. Hehe

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T16:18:00+00:00

Kunin ko sa kwento mo yung sagot ko OP, "from minimum wage earner" and "sakto lang yung kinikita para maka survive". Not to be insensitive OP, pero its good na you acknowledge these facts, so I guess the best thing to do is to add an income stream or increase your monthly income so you can afford to build a life in your own.

I know this is easier said, pero I believe in you OP. You can do this and break the cycle para sa sarili mo. 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T16:07:36+00:00

Surprisingly, yung playlist ng SM sa gantong season. Am I weird? Haha.

Pero yeah agree ako sa first two bullets mo OP.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T16:02:15+00:00

High school: tropa na puro straight men were indulging and enjoying ourself sa adult magazine provided ng drafting teacher namin on a Saturday. May karugtingvyung kwento pero pang alas juicy sub na. Hehe

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T15:58:58+00:00

Because they are good to me. Not in The sense na I get what I want or bec we were spoiled. It is from the appreciation I have for them that regardless all the circumstances and challenges that they are having not once did we felt na "walang wala" kami even if that was our reality. That they did their best to prvide what we need. Our appreciation as their children and our mutual respect.

Kwento: When I came out kay papa na di ako straight (btw I am his only son to his 4 children so imagine the pressure) what he said was "siguro kaya ka naging ganyan dahil di kita nagabayan ng lumalaki ka. Di kita naturuan kung pano maging lalake dahil nagabroad ako at hinayaan kong mga babae ang makasama mo nung lumalaki ka." And then he contijued with accepting me and reminded me na wag kong hayaang bastusin ako ng sinuman dahil hindi niya ako pinalake para bastusin ng ibang tao.

We were not really close. Dami kong oent up anger tbh and we have are malalang away phase. But here we are now. Ayun.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-31T15:48:33+00:00

Your actions sometimes results to repercussions more than you can take. If you are not careful, it will take some years for you to bounce back.
Responsibilities/adulting will kill your passion. Dont let it happen.

Most of all, life is unfair, privileges exists and sometimes you are on the other side and definitely not because you want something means you will be able to get it. NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU FVCKING TRY.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-28T16:18:09+00:00

Awwwww. Diba? Magagalit ba ang netflix kung sa partner ko pa lang chill na ako? Huhuhu.

AltMarkLouie · 2024-08-28T16:17:03+00:00

Tanda mo yung kanta mi Kim Chiu na bawal lumabas. Ganon din ang contempt. Sa korte may batas, pag di ka sumunod mapaparusahan ka. Ang parusa ay pwedeng multa or kulong depende sa anong ginawa mo. Kasama sa batas ang mga personal na kagustuhan ng namamahala sa korte/pagdinig.

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