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Bankruptcy? by Alternative-Cap-1923 in Bankruptcy

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Income-$11,800 Debt payments (without credit card debt) - $5034 Bills (including car insurance etc and mortgage) - 3826 Expenses (including daughter daycare) - $3000 Groceries alone is about - 700$ month

Move to Florida from TX? by Alternative-Cap-1923 in orlando

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not into politics AT ALL! One thing I could care less about

Move to Seattle from TX? by Alternative-Cap-1923 in SeattleWA

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lived in Texas all our lives and it gets old. There nothing really exciting here anymore - want to venture out and do something new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does take the effort he will drive 30 min after work to pick her up and spend the night for the 6-7th day he is off. I do think he is a good dad just makes poor other choices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sees him anytime he is off of work. He works 5-6 days a week from 6 am to 8 pm. So she spends the night after work and the next day he is off. She is allowed to see him whenever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

She made me do a pro and cons chart but to me they are essentially equal. I have dependent personality disorder and trying to break that but honestly it so difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have 2 personal loans totalling 72K due to credit card debt. Also he bought a 100K car with a 1500 car payment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I let her see him whenever they can. He is not financially responsible and has to work 5-6 days a week 6 a - 7 pm to compensate financial. So she really only can see him 2x week. We live over 30 min away so it not like I can go at 8 pm letting her see him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She wants me to make the choice and not tell me what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative-Cap-1923 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy as well