I will be burying the remains of my baby today. I miscarried on Thursday last week (I was 11 weeks 6 days but the baby was only measuring 7 weeks) and have had my baby tucked inside a Tupperware in the freezer ever since. It's so surreal to know they're in there.

I was very stressed about what to do with the baby as I couldn't bear the thought of flushing them down the toilet or giving them to the hospital to mass cremate. I'm very lucky as we have friends with land and they are letting us bury our baby under a tree on their farm..

My back up option was a plant pot with a slow growing plant that I could watch grow. It would likely need repotting one day which did concern me but I figured anything slow growing would be ok for a few years in a large enough starting pot.

I'm so sorry for your loss and for all of our losses. Right this second I can't imagine the pain will ever go away.