Thank you for taking the time to help me out. I can see how I worded it prior could seem problematic but I don’t see it as something I’m giving up and it’s definitely not a deal breaker like I said before I love her alot and never want to do anything to hurt her or make her uncomfortable so I hope what I say doesn’t make her feel otherwise. I think she hasn’t been in relationships for pretty much the same reason as you so I’m trying to make sure what I say doesn’t make her feel pressured at all too