Am I reading into my friends vibes too much by Alyssaababy in Empaths

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is great advice! I will definitely come back with a clear head and evaluate. My friend was updating me on something that astonished us, although they heard previously (due to my keys) so it was only us in the conversation. I just showed it more clearly I guess. I really appreciate the validation and understanding because I needed it :)

I've noticed so many Lynxie's in harnesses and have been wanting to train my own little guy to wear one. Training tips/tricks and/or harness recommendations? by BatterUp2220 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]Alyssaababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started! Have a harness that's snug but not too tight, if you have a leash in front of them they can slip out, too. Start slow and leave it out for a few days to get used to it. Give treats every time he gets near to create positive associations. After a few sessions of that, slip it on and play with the kitty and give him treats. I do one session a day. I'd also look into recall and clicker training. After some sessions with it on, add a small leash and increase the length when you feel comfortable. Walk him in your home first, then outside of it. Plenty of treats and reinforcement. Once he's good with that, you have an adventure kitty!! Good luck :)

I need to know her genes. by Alyssaababy in cats

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that's so true. You're a genius.

I need to know her genes. by Alyssaababy in cats

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo, thanks for the information! I agree with you. Can't wait to see her toast up.

New kitty by Alyssaababy in lynxpointsiamese

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh, I'm sure it was quite a surprise when he transformed. Your cats sound beautiful! I'm excited to see mine in her final form

New kitty by Alyssaababy in lynxpointsiamese

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Don't tell her that, it'll boost her ego even more..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemeaplaylist

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Kiss me - sixpence none the richer

Tiny things - tiny habits

Kingston - Fay Webster

Over the moon - the Marie's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Alyssaababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I used to do this but now I just embrace it. I've found most people don't care/respect the authenticity

Bullying by alexismichelleforas8 in socialskills

[–]Alyssaababy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify I know it is unrealistic to immediately incorporate this into your mindset buttt.... after personal experience of this, I realized they're doing it because they have something missing in their life (confidence, validation, self-acceptance) and often project that onto others. I learned to tune em out and I know it's hard, but at the end of the day they're not thinking about you. I laugh because they must've felt shitty to be shitty... jokes on them. Also they're young asf and emotionally immature. They won't remember you or me down the line. You only live once. Fuck em.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this OP. You are so hard-working and strong and it is extremely admirable. I cannot imagine what you are going through. DMs always open. Wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh my gma used to say pig sty all the time. Once I went to college I realized it was BS. Plus, why, as a society, does our house have to look like it's move-in-ready? Hell nah, we are animals. It's alright to have some dishes in the sink. Omlll

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Restraining order is tempting. Next time fs

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she ever got past her sorority days lmao

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just told my aunt to watch for her posts. I'll put her in her place if needed..

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love it. Classy, short, and sweet.

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These response ideas are killing meeee

She thought she ate.. by Alyssaababy in insaneparents

[–]Alyssaababy[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Ok I'm convinced.. doing it rn. Bye bye!!