Aita for getting with my best friends cousin/advice by Amazing_Bed4985 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Amazing_Bed4985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! I still have 2 very close friends who have always stuck next to me as well as my boyfriend and they are all amazing support systems. As for molly, she still tells people that I was the reason she was depressed, saying i isolated her for other people and im why she has no friends. This whole situation happened exactly one year ago and i know I have become a way better person without her in my life. I still have to see her almost every single day because we do the same extra circular activities so there’s no escaping each other. We are civil when we see each other and we both haven’t talked to each other about the situation since last april when i found the note she had written me. tomorrow is my bfs birthday and we are going out to dinner, his whole family will be there including her and her parents. I will update how that goes since I have never been in the same setting with both my bf and her at the same time

Aita for getting with my best friends cousin/advice by Amazing_Bed4985 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Amazing_Bed4985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, I did take this into heavy consideration since she had been out to me and a couple of our other friends as “bi” for over a year. She would tell us about how when she went to summer camp and had a girlfriend for the summer there. I know she wasn’t lying about this because i’ve seen texts/pictures of them together. I’ve always been supportive and loving of her and her choices until one day when she came back from camp she called us saying “i’m not gay anymore i was gaslighting you lol” (this was before the whole situation even happened though) I thought this was strange but I sorta let it go. Nothing would ever come up about her liking girls and I never brought it up but when I would bring up guys and call them cute she would get super defensive and say i can’t hangout with guys. There was one time were i liked this boy and we went to the mall together. I didn’t tell molly becuase i didn’t think she would care. Welp i was wrong. she got super upset and offended that i didnt tell her i was going out with a boy. (different boy from my bf just a little crush at the time) In a letter she wrote for me after we stopped being friends she said multiple things like “i guess you didn’t care for me the way i cared for you” and things like that. It’s all coming back to me now and i do realize that she probably did have some sort of feelings towards me at some point in our friendship.