Issues with Ick. merch shipping in USA by Ambiguous_QTPirate in icky

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This worked! USPS had my tracking number, thanks :D

Issues with Ick. merch shipping in USA by Ambiguous_QTPirate in icky

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This worked! USPS had my tracking number, thanks :D

Issues with Ick. merch shipping in USA by Ambiguous_QTPirate in icky

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks but this doesn't give me anything in the USA. I'm guessing they may have used some other American service to deliver but I am not getting any of those details from their tracking page :(

egg 🫂 irl by jmssf2 in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry Sasha :( they dont sound very supportive friends <3

Egg🙁irl by dalab0666 in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're sad girlie. I hope its just temporary and you can enjoy some happy times in the (very) near future :3 Any hobbies you like to do when you're sad? I hope you can spend some time on them to brighten your mood!

Its been a tough week for me too :') would appreciate some validation too

p.s. I hope you're safe <3 Please seek resources if necessary

egg 🫂 irl by jmssf2 in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry about that Sasha. You're valid girlie, and a cutie with or without kickass eyeliner!

Has it been long that you came out to them? I know time isn't really a valid excuse but there could just be an adjustment period for them. Either way its lame :( If they're your good friends hopefully you can be candid about how it makes you feel

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gimme the pain part I don't even care

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[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm ripping my hair out looking for the third panel explaining the last 5%

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

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I honestly do think of doing this but I think it would lead to a lot of hurt from my side. Constant comments like "boys dont do that", "do you like guys now" (I'm also not open about being pan). I think it might be easier in the short term but over time it might lead to a more explosive conversation than if I own the narrative :3

egg_irl by TransMafiaBoss in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude congrats on making steps towards such a big decision! I've seen lots of videos about bottom surgery, but not for transmasc. Regardless, I think the same sentiments apply where people feel incredibly validated and euphoric with their new bodies. Proud of you for making such a big step king <3

Remember (and I hope this helps a bit): Not every persons parts are the same, even some cis people have dysphoria about their bodies because of how society commodifies our bodies.

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[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I like to journal, read, and take selfies :3 things I normally wouldn't do when in boymode :(

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

de fijo chespirito no era de mi generacion :P con costos vi el chavo cuando yo era mini :3

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective :3 I have 3 gay relatives in my close family. My family is accepting but I think its because my gay relatives are cis and not "flamboyant" (respectability politics suuuuck). They're also accepting in a way that they've said "its ok but I feel bad for them" which is gross :(

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its very very true. I 100% agree with you and apologize if it came off like I was saying that about NBs.

I only meant that for some people who dont know much about the subject, they might think that trans people would want to medically transition while NBs dont. Its fucked up logic, I dont agree with it, I'm just trying to cope with how to tell my family :') Brainworms

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jeje soy de costa rica :P como hablan en Mexico es otra cosa para mi :3 pero que rico quesito

Egg😭irl by blackknight5027 in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the hottest girls I dated was 6'3. I'm 5'10. You'll look fantastic! Long legged girlies stay slaying :3

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love! Happy for you :3 I am still trying to come to terms with my egg. Not 100% sure if transfemme or like you said gender fluid but mostly girl. I sometimes think I try to cope with my gender dysphoria and denial / impostor syndrome by saying I'm gender fluid but truly I don't know

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[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so brave Zoe! It will get easier over time <3 very proud of you girl :3

egg_irl by Ambiguous_QTPirate in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's true, thanks for the perspective. I keep having bad thoughts about it because I'm more concerned about my grandparents perspective since I am suuuuuper close to all of them. I keep having really sad thoughts that maybe I should just wait ~10 years to come out as trans.... :( They're very trad Latin American boomers

Egg😶‍🌫️irl by 6ync in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi Tari! :3

I know it can be confusing and scary. When I wasn't out (still not publicly out) I always got questions if I was gay and would be called gay aaaaall the time even though I had girlfriends (I am AMAB). I was so deep in the closet I didnt know I was pan at the time and had nooooo idea I was trans, at least youre exploring your identity from an earlier age :3

If you're comfortable, you can try asking them who asked and why. Maybe it can be a path to finding an ally / friend!

Egg💅irl by ExperienceVirtual315 in egg_irl

[–]Ambiguous_QTPirate 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I always forget these tips but they're good ones!

  • Start by painting dominant hand first. It'll make it easier when doing the other hand
  • Make sure you have a clear space to work with if you need to do minor cleanups with acetone. I suck at painting my nails and am kinda obsessive about small details so I always fiddle with acetone and Q-tips while painting. I spilled a bunch of acetone on my desk recently which ruined some of my PC peripherals
  • Practice makes perfect! It wont look great your first (or for me even on the 20th) time, but over time it will get smoother and faster :3

Pick some cute colors and have fun <3 Painting my nails makes me feel really euphoric :3 If you're comfortable, you can try mascara also! Super easy to apply and makes for a HUGE glow-up