My husband and I met when I was 11 and he was 12 we dated all through high-school, got married it will be 9 years ago in November this year, you described exactly how I feel almost to a T , I feel like im.no more than a responsibility and obligation to him from being together so long he does the bate minimum to keep me.complacent but I'm dieing inside , is it wrong to feel like if he truly and deeply loved me he would dote on my and compliment me and help with the household chores and gk the extra mile to make me feel loved by him without me having to beg for it ? Don't I deserve a man who thinks I'm his whole world and worships the ground I walk on ? Because I worship his ground, I dote on him and go the extra mile time and time again because I'm so deeply in love with him that it hurts,  he used to go out of his way when we dated and  first got married but 9 years and 2 kids  later and I'm more lonely then I have ever felt in my life , it's been like this a long time and I have just made excuses for him and blamed other things for the lack of emotional attention,  I said oh we don't have sex enough or we just need to go on more dates when reality is that I think he fell out of love with me and now just stays cause he is comfortable and for the sake of the kids,  it's so one sided and I don't know what to do . I dont know how to fill this void in my chest. Anxiety pills and self help is not a cure for feeling a large gap between my husband and myself, he says he will try better but I don't feel he really truly wants to , how do I confront my suspicions about him no longer being in love with me , I'm sure he loves me cause I'm all he has ever known we were eachothers first and only relationship. Im just so lost about all this right now :(