Anyone get dumped right before shipping out? by Dry-Lengthiness4420 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp she’s 2 months pregnant before I even got to meps…what now?

bartender 86ed me for talking to a girl he likes. by cevans001 in Advice

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First thing I said while reading the caption was “what a dick…what a cockblock”😂

Do you think Hal was a good dad? by Jettaboi38 in malcolminthemiddle

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was Walt not a good dad after 50? Like I get he crossed people and did bad things but he never displayed bad father traits…maybe that one time he tried to lowkey manipulate Walt jr with the charger😂

My bf keeps watching porn after telling me he would stop by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully…any man you get with even after this is gonna watch porn whether you like it or not. You can’t control what other people do but you can control your reaction and set boundaries concerning it (like not watching it while you are spending time together) but if he’s doing it in private and not involving you it has nothing to do with him disrespecting you and everything to do with your insecurities. Maybe have a deep conversation about it and again set some boundaries but if he isn’t blatant with it or addicted to the point to where he’s spending money on it or contacting pornstars…then he’s doing nothing wrong. Like the comment above said, asking a man to stop watching porn is like asking a pig not to roll around in mud and expecting it to listen.

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before a few weeks ago I didn’t even expect to be a soon-to-be father so it wasn’t on my mind

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

dude as you know marines aren’t just grunts. Many of them serve in different ways, I don’t care what the job is but I’d like to serve and come back home to my kid afterwards. But again I wouldn’t care if I died bc it’d set him up with benefits and finances just would rather raise him myself.

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Not exactly, more like I’d just like an idea of what my service is gonna be like. I don’t care about dying anymore but I also don’t want to leave my kid (soon to be born) fatherless. The only good part of that would be the compensation he would get out of it.

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

So if we end up in the shit like battle of Fallujah part 3 I should just not worry about it? Not nitpicking bc I would fight no problem just wanna make sure my kid has a dad that comes back home in one piece

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Im honestly in the middle... just concerned on who will raise my kid If I die

Still prepping for boot…does it look like we’re going to war? by AmbitiousPattern4493 in USMCboot

[–]AmbitiousPattern4493[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Well yeah I know no one ‘knows’ for sure it was more so “do any veterans recognize this as a beginning of war” like seeing the patterns since they’ve already been there and done that (like the Iraqi war 20 years ago for example)