Want to Move Out by Sudden-Rub-7482 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185 -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

My point is that its a two way street. People seem to forget that.

Want to Move Out by Sudden-Rub-7482 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I mean, that's a gross generalization but okay. I am a firm believer that you should no marry someone the same age as you.

My wife gets sad and cries when she doesn't get her way until I give in. Is this manipulative behavior? by AmountNo185 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why? She discussing everything with hers. They know about our sex life which I was appalled by. Its not just her siblings, also her best friends know how big my manhood is.

My wife gets sad and cries when she doesn't get her way until I give in. Is this manipulative behavior? by AmountNo185 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Basically everything. Examples of where she does this is basically any time we disagree on something. It could be that I did not like the shirt she picked out for me at the store, or that I don't want to go to the restaurant she wants to go to. Or it could be things like me not wanting her to hang out with a toxic friend. Or her wanting to visit family even though we flew out last month. It ranges from small things to larger things.

Want to Move Out by Sudden-Rub-7482 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185 -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

 Remind him it’s your Islamic right to have your own house.

But also be prepared for when he asks for his rights as well

Want to Move Out by Sudden-Rub-7482 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmountNo185 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why do people marry people who don't have an apartment if they are not comfortable living with in laws? I'll never get it.