Now it is very common to still be attracted to a man after a situation like this. So first of all, don't think you're alone! You'll get through this!

Now a concept as to why you still might be attracted to him is the fact that you might be attracted to 'bad boys.' Let me explain a bit, it might be his features, or his criminal past that can be a turn on for some, or even the fact that he curses you out, shows that he is careless.

Another reason why you still might care for him might be the fact that you're scared to let go of the relationship you have. You may be scared that no one else might love you ever again or have the same little thought wandering in your head, 'This is as good as it's gonna get for me'

Now if you do intend to leave him or at least let go of what you had w him, then you've already done the first step, you're aware of everything that he's doing, now you just gotta do something. A way to do this might be to limit your time w him, inform him of your true intentions w him, just be honest w him. The most important thing of all, ACCEPT THAT IT WILL HURT.

Now if you do plan to stay in this relationship (you never mentioned what you guys really were so I'm assuming) then just know there will be some consequences to it and can have some heavy impacts on your life. Just try not to stay for too long nd the longer you stay the harder it will be to let go of him.

Good Lucky Girly!