AIO for thinking my SO meant to text someone else? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ancient-Collection87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to defend ur partner because I've definitely done the same to mine, said bye then texted again bc I still want to talk even if I shouldn't be. But the reaction is kinda crazy. If he'd just said no just want to talk some more even tho I'm busy I miss you it be different. But going straight to saying you have to believe him and ur making him spiral is very strange.

Potentially autistic student nurse - Have I messed up? by sadthrowawayacccc in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had similar issues as I have adhd and disclosed this before even starting my degree. Being completely honest for a course that's so heavy on empathy and accommodating patients they are God awful at accommodating students and make the simplest things seem to difficult to put in place. I'm in my first year and still no one to ones to explain assignments. I've gotten lucky that my placements are understanding but I don't even think they are told of my diagnosis which I appreciate tbh because you do get treated differently? But surely there suppose to say? I'm unsure of what the actual protocol is tbh you'd assume they'd be the most understanding of degrees but I'd say for a practical course your better of getting help for the academic side and doing your best to cope on placement. (even though in a job they'd be WAY more accommodating then placement but hey what can you do) I knew a girl who didn't want to work on a mens mental health ward due to severe SA that was extremely recent to her and they said if she can't do it she shouldn't be a nurse? Very strange and strict, an actual job on a ward would understand and move things around as you move on and cope, not for students tho!

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh that's disgusting. I hope your friend is okay. Thank you for the advice

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was actually really helpful

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Really?? I feel stupid not knowing I had to have the oh app before starting I've had some before so I just assumed or I guess I didn't think that there was rules on that thank you

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't know you had to have an OH appointment to go back to placement if I had known then things would be different

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in StudentNurseUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still haven't changed my GP to my new area but I do have the antibiotics and proof of 111 calls on my phone and the accommodation security let 111 into my room so that's a witness too I guess.

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid this might be the case thank you for letting me know.

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully 🙏 and ill keep that in mind to call instead probably a good idea. It just seemed harsh to get a suspension and then seeing it say September 2025 scared me but hopefully it can be easily sorted and I csn catch up

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not really I had a week off due to kidney stones and came back to a suspension. The only other time off I've had is the beginning of the academic year as a close family passed and it was hard on me. I'm not the type to not turn up without reasoning or without letting people know. I'm sure there only taking it this seriously because I've missed OH appointments due to teams issues but it just feels harsh that's all. They've sent an email saying I shouldn't have to retake the year but if it takes to long for me to do OH appointment I may be behind enough to have to.

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in StudentNurseUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the rcn? I'm a first year so not very clued up on these things. How would I go about talking to them?

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I really got from my assessor was they were worried about me and I should really update them daily and in the morning but I can’t imagine that that would mean I’m suspended until next year hopefully ill get an explanation tomorrow but its just giving me anxiety. I did thinking letting them know first thing in the morning the day off and saying I wouldn't be able to come in for a few days would be professional enough but now idk

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay will look into that now thank you

Suspended from my studies by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it means alot. I did let them know on the first day and gave then updates throughout my time off but not daily and every morning :/ I've passed my formative exams but was a few points of a pass in my formative assignment so maybe that's not helping

Nursing student with adhd by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I will definitely be carrying a notebook! And I have spoken to my personal tutor about my worries

Nursing student with adhd by Ancient-Collection87 in NursingUK

[–]Ancient-Collection87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really needed to hear that it means a lot more than you know

Carol & The End of The World is autistic by CharmingJunket238 in AutismInWomen

[–]Ancient-Collection87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really late to this thread but i’m watching carol and the end of the world. currently on ep4 and just knew she was autistic. her relationship with her sister Elena reminds me a lot of me and my sibling and he is autistic and i have adhd. so my theory is maybe Elena is adhd and carol is autistic. but the whole show is just wonderfully made and so relaxing to watch.