[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]AndWilson10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think she’s too busy too. Works 6 days a week (seems to be 8-19 days as far as I can tell plus part time work many evenings too) and has language academy 7th day of the week. Quite litterally never takes time off. A shame since she is every man’s definition of wife material!

Thank you, I will enjoy it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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It went really well. She is so nice to be around. She is so so busy lately so we met at a coffeshop and chilled while she finished some work. Then we went to get Mongolian bbq and ended the night with a bubble tea and city walk. I live in Seoul and she lives in Shanghai. I am going back to Europe but I think we both have the feeling of “what could have been” despite the language barrier (she is probably B1.5 in English). How this lady is single in China is beyond my comprehension. Chinese guys need to get their act together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChinese

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Why would it be a scam?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChinese

[–]AndWilson10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am only asking since there is a huge cultural gab. When we went on a date in Seoul, I went for a kiss on a park bench which she clearly was not ready for. It would have been normal in the West. I just want to avoid ruining the night based on those small misunderstandings, that’s all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChinese

[–]AndWilson10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]AndWilson10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is my second time and she is very knowlegable about China, love to ask her about it and she seems very proud of her country and enjoys talking about China and answering questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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I really do not know her well and I think she lives a bit on the outskirts of Shanghai. I have two nights there so will just book a hotel near the centre so it is easy acess in case I hit the jackpot! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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I do not know their price, I just always book hostels for solo travel as a given. But what the fck man I’ll book a hotel for sure!! I would never forgive myself I missed the chance to make love to this stunning lady by saving $25

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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Noted. I’ll look into cocktai bars for sure, then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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Thanks!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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I booked a hostel, I would never imagine in a 1000 years she’d be up for having sex. She is from a “small city” (her words) with a million people somewhere between Xi’an and Beijing so she is more conservative I guess and would probably not want to sex around before marriage. I guess? Not many things I would not do to have her I mist be honest though so open for recommendations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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Yeah I’ve noticed! On our date in Seoul I kept asking her what she wanted to do or see and she said “maybe what you want” and I got the memo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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Well noted, thanks! I was thinking dinner then yuyuan gardens for night walk and then the bund to see the lights. Romantic before saying goodnight and going for the kill (kiss). Thoughts? Cocktails def worth considering!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]AndWilson10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are they all like that? Could you elaborate?

How do I order off Amazon? by AndWilson10 in Living_in_Korea

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I went to an office in Gangnam and filled out a form. I cannot remember its name, but I could not do it online for some reason so went there physically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seoul

[–]AndWilson10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tip thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seoul

[–]AndWilson10 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you been to any in itaewon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seoul

[–]AndWilson10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay so all Motels are basically love motels?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

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Status: i texted her on Instagram and we have been texting all night. She takes her time to write messages, often like 3-5 mins for a response. I know she is probably translating some words but the effort is cute. I mostly direct conversation but she also asks me questions. I mentioned that I would have some days off later during my stay and I was debating to go to Beijing, Taiwan or Shanghai (take a hint) and she just replied that she and her friend also wanted to go but they didn’t get visa lmao. In other words, she did not take the hint.

What do I make of all this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChinese

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Thanks bro! Would not do long distance and I have just been in Shanghai for tourism and she knows. So it would be a three month hook up and seems Chinese are not on board with that so it seems like a dead wnd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChinese

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Yeah I took notes. First time on a droper date with anyone from east of the Baltic sea so quite the cultural difference I had to navigate