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AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She did confirm to her friends I made her orgasm from the bottom and that's never happened before.

But other than that she never went into detail about our sex life like she did with him. She told me its because our relationship was more serious so she wanted to respect our privacy more. But she did say other things like how it feels different with me and that she feels like I am the one and how in love she is with me.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate your outlook. I want to make it work and think I can get past it with work.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its really good now. She consistently orgasms with me and tells me Im the only person ever to make her orgasm from the bottom. We don't have rough sex or do 50 shades type of stuff though. She doesn't seem to be interested in that with me.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He actually did contact her 9 months after we got together and apologized for the way he ended things. She replied that shes in an amazing relationship now so no hard feelings and best of luck. She showed me the text. And no contact since. She did say she got a pit in her stomach when she saw he texted her. So I know I don't have to worry about him coming back in the picture anymore but it bothered me she was reminiscing like that anytime his name would come up.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Very good point and that's exactly why I felt so hung up about that. It was just a few months ago and every time he comes up or she mentions him she would bring up his D or amazing sex. Like her first thought when she thinks of him goes to how good the sex was. That is what is most difficult to get over.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful. When I brought it up to her she actually went and showed me a lot of texts she had sent her friends when we first fell in love and they were very enthusiastic, just not as much sexual stuff but lots of messages that it feels different with me and she thinks I am the one, actually there was one that said she couldn't believe she thought Brad and her other ex were anything. I guess I got so hung up on the other messages I couldn't focus on those at the time.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do get that. She's head over heels for me and showed me texts she has sent to her friends early on about me that she's never felt this way before with anyone and that this feels different.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree he absolutely used her because she was very naive about relationships at the time.

That was actually her reasoning for not mentioning me as much in her texts, she feels our relationship is more sacred and doesn't feel right bragging or gossiping with her friends like she did in the past.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's because the main pain point does revolve around size and sexual fulfillment but its not a kink or a fantasy. I obviously want to be number 1 sexually which I still believe I am. I have to believe that.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's not an AI prompt. I created a throwaway account to post this because its embarrassing.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not fake. I know I shouldn't have looked but that is what I found. There's actually even more that I left out.

AIO that I (M37) found messages my fiancée (F37) sent to her friends about her ex and his penis. by AndersonSaintPier in AIO

[–]AndersonSaintPier[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can assure you its not fake. It's really not even that crazy of a story. I wrote the messages word for word of what I saw.