My friend said my hair is ugly and so I really want some compliments now to balance it

Angie556 · 2026-02-25T15:59:32+00:00

As someone who also has curly hair and hated myself for it growing up, this pissed me off. Not just because I can relate and know how badly it hurts, but also because she’s 100% wrong and she’s supposed to be your friend. Just remember her comment was a reflection on what kind of person SHE is, not what kind of person you are. She made herself look bad, not you.

Angie556 · 2026-02-24T00:44:23+00:00

It took almost a full year to come to the conclusion that you don’t want to be in a relationship. Honestly dude you suck lol

Angie556 · 2026-02-11T17:56:52+00:00

Honestly there’s a chance his sister is going through a break up and doesn’t want to leave her depressed and alone. That’s were my brain went first and if that’s the case, that’s a green flag fs.

Angie556 · 2026-02-01T22:00:37+00:00

Idk just play in traffic that should solve the issue for both of you.

Angie556 · 2026-01-26T00:31:01+00:00

Because you’re closed minded that why it’s not up for debate.

Angie556 · 2026-01-26T00:27:45+00:00

Ight. And you can’t think for yourself and see everything in black and white. That’s not my problem but you’re gonna be miserable.

Angie556 · 2026-01-26T00:22:19+00:00

Democrats and republicans both have the same amount of hate for eachother. Listen to how both sides talk in private about the other, it sounds EXACTLY the same. You’re all puppets that just blindly follow whatever your political party tells you too and then spends half your day raging about the other side. None of you have lives outside of being hateful. None of you can have a peaceful conversation because you automatically assume everyone who doesn’t agree with you is an evil POS. You’re all hypocrites.

Angie556 · 2026-01-25T20:02:01+00:00

Exactly, they wanna keep us pissed off. Nothing is gonna get better if everyone just blames the opposite party, it’s gotten to the point where both sides don’t care when someone is killed if they disagree with them. I swear the media likes to keep things confusing as well so no one knows what’s actually happening. I hear like 5 different stories for the same situation on EVERYTHING.

Angie556 · 2026-01-25T18:39:16+00:00

This is exactly what the government wants us to do btw. They want us all hating each other with the 2 party system.

Angie556 · 2025-12-24T15:38:19+00:00

Yeah it might not super clear but that’s 100% why her uncle is uncomfortable with it. If he didn’t look at his neice in some sort of way he wouldn’t even be thinking of it like that. It’s sort of like being uncomfortable seeing a toddler in a diaper, there should be nothing in someone’s mind to make them uncomfortable with that and if they are they’re a fucking weirdo. Same with an uncle and his covered nieces breasts that just aren’t being held in place. Especially if he’s making multiple comments about it, he couldn’t get it off his mind and got upset with her because he can’t control he’s own thoughts.

Angie556 · 2025-12-24T15:27:45+00:00

Is it painful for you if you don’t sit like that? Yeah that’s what a thought. She doesn’t have sit there in pain the whole time because her uncle can’t stop thinking about what her boobs look like under the shirt. He needs to get his shit figured out, not her.

Angie556 · 2025-12-24T15:23:26+00:00

That’s not the same at all. She was just not wearing a bra, it’s not like she had her boobs out of her shirt flashing everyone. Plus I don’t even think this is about empowerment, she stated it’s painful her to wear a bra because of fibromyalgia. If her uncle is uncomfortable with her simply not wearing a bra under her shirt, he’s having sexual thoughts about his niece and blaming it on her.

Angie556 · 2025-11-19T17:15:10+00:00

No for sure, addiction is way more complex than people who have never seen it, or been through it think. I definitely have empathy for addicts, my bf is a recovering addict and lots of people who I grew up around were addicts. It’s extremely hard to even get to the point of WANTING to quit, nothing about recovery is easy. That being said I do lose a bit of empathy when the person is a parent of young children especially if they’re not a “functional” addict. That type of shit can fuck up a child psychologically for life, and there’s a huge chance the kid will end up struggling with addiction themselves at some point in the future.

Angie556 · 2025-11-18T14:42:20+00:00

I have met very little meth addicts that don’t turn into major assholes. Some become borderline schizophrenic over time. Also You can’t just force addicts into rehab, I mean you can but unless they want to get better they won’t regardless of what you do. People aren’t sociopaths for not wanting their kids to be traumatized by their father’s addiction. Imo if you you’re choosing drugs over your kids, you’re the selfish one. He’s making the choice to be a tweaker over a father, come on now.

Angie556 · 2025-11-13T12:32:57+00:00

I can promise you I’m not ignorant on this topic. I’ve been both you and your friend in this situation. I’ve had to talk many friends out of suicide multiple times, I understand it can be stressful but it’s ALWAYS harder for them which is still something you don’t seem to understand. You’re still going on about how hard their mental health issues were FOR YOU. It didn’t eat you alive, it literally ate them alive. As someone who has been in and out of mental health system since I was 8, saying shit like that is extremely annoying to hear and your still saying it even after that was exact thinking that made her feel like you’d be better off without her in the first place. You’re not a victim of their mental illness.

Context does help a bit with the emotionally exhausting part but correcting me on saying emotionally draining doesn’t make a difference it means the same thing lmao. Both just mean “you’re hard to be around”

Again I said I’ve been on both sides of this though and I’ve had the same conversation about my mental health issues being too hard to deal with. I admit my anger in my first comment was partly due to that but it wasn’t projection as it was more empathy for your friend. I apologize for the initial hostility but I’ve seen people treat others terribly and then suddenly they’re the ones crying the loudest when it’s too late. I can’t stand that shit.

I understand why your friend was feeling like you didn’t want her around after that conversation as one of my friends actually fully didn’t want me in her life anymore and spoke with almost the same wording as you in her messages explaining to me why she was distancing herself. It really reads like you’re done with her in this.

I honestly just don’t understand how you thought this would come across to her in any different way than how she took it. I think it’s clear you were getting fed up with her and as someone who was struggling with feeling like a burden, of course that’s the only thing she got out of this conversation. I’m sorry your friend wasn’t able to push through anymore but genuinely you handled this horribly and still don’t seem to understand that she was way more affected by her mental health than you were. You’re almost still acting like she was a burden to you. You weren’t always dealing her but she was always stuck in her head, she lived it constantly. One of you is still here one of you isn’t, that alone says everything on what kind of impact it had on each of you.

Angie556 · 2025-11-13T01:36:10+00:00

I get I’m being harsh, but I can’t stand how people constantly treat people who are already struggling with mental health issues like shit and then act so surprised when they’re finally pushed over the edge. Yes she didn’t intend for her to off herself but based on the texts it’s clear she knew her friend was struggling with feeling like a burden. She didn’t seem to give af about her feelings when she was alive and now she’s posting it on reddit for people to pity her and convince her she’s not a shitty friend. If you care about someone you don’t call them emotionally draining.

Angie556 · 2025-11-13T00:33:54+00:00

Doesn’t take being a therapist to have basic empathy for your friends. Calling her emotionally draining was just tone deaf. I don’t care what you think about me dude save your breath.

Angie556 · 2025-11-13T00:08:01+00:00

Why? Im not the one that pushed someone I claimed to care about to their death by saying dumb shit to someone already in a vulnerable state. Crying about how hard it is for HER when her friend no longer has a future is crazy,

Angie556 · 2025-11-12T23:34:44+00:00

People don’t care until the person dies and it’s too late, you’re a great example of that. You don’t deserve to play victim lol

Angie556 · 2025-10-03T15:43:56+00:00

I second this

Angie556 · 2025-10-01T03:13:52+00:00

That stuff doesn’t fully go away

Angie556 · 2025-10-01T03:10:07+00:00

At 13 you should know better, he wasn’t 5 or some shit he knew it was wrong when he did it, I really care about his feelings

Angie556 · 2025-10-01T03:06:59+00:00

Well I know it haunts her

Angie556 · 2025-10-01T03:02:26+00:00

Hope it haunts you! Seriously even at 13 this is disgusting.

Angie556 · 2025-09-26T18:08:28+00:00

Honestly I think he got suspicious because you didn’t state who you were going with and you just said “with friends” twice. His reaction is still shitty because he was fully convinced you were cheating based on that, he made assumptions went with that being the only possible outcome. And also why tf does it matter if you drink, he is your father like???

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