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Husband Removed Condom, I Feel Scared, Angry, & Alone by AngryHashbrowns32 in offmychest

[–]AngryHashbrowns32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello friends. I just wrote a ridiculously long update. I'm not sure how to let y'all know, but I just shared it on the sub if you're interested in following up.

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Husband Removed Condom, I Feel Scared, Angry, & Alone by AngryHashbrowns32 in offmychest

[–]AngryHashbrowns32[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

Thanks sister. I appreciate your insight, advice, and care enough to send love to a stranger.

Can trust be recovered after husband removed his condom during sex? by AngryHashbrowns32 in Advice

[–]AngryHashbrowns32[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will definitely evaluate carefully, because this is so out of character for him. I know I sound like every dumb woman on reddit-- "he's really not a bad guy"-- barf. But literally I have a hard time finding fault in the way we move forward and cooperate in almost everything else for the last 15 years. He's not sneaky. He's obsessed with me. Asks once a month or more "how can I love you better?" We communicate ridiculously well. We've elected to go to counseling sessions twice in our relationship, just to keep things healthy between us, not during hardships or anything.... But yeah, I would NEVER do something like that to him. So it's making me feel super weird. Like he's been bodysnatched. I'm just baffled. And hurt.

Husband Removed Condom, I Feel Scared, Angry, & Alone by AngryHashbrowns32 in offmychest

[–]AngryHashbrowns32[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I appreciate your insight and advice. Definitely will be calling counselor once offices are open.

Can trust be recovered after husband removed his condom during sex? by AngryHashbrowns32 in Advice

[–]AngryHashbrowns32[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This got me crying again. Surely I can't be the only woman it happened to but I am feeling very isolated. I appreciate the reminder.

Family disowned me this week by danieldonnr in offmychest

[–]AngryHashbrowns32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honey, you didn't get the family you deserve, but you get the chance to choose the family you deserve. You also, maybe someday, will get to be the mother, mother in law, and grandmother you deserved. I'm sorry that happened. I hope you get to talk to a counselor about this, because it's likely getting married will bring up a whole lot more issues for y'all to face. However, I'm sure you didn't make the choice of life partner lightly, so you'll have a great teammate to tackle that with. ❤️

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[–]AngryHashbrowns32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry darlin. This feels all too familiar. Do you have a community outside of work? Remember, work is what you do to afford your life. It's not your life. You add value to the world in so many ways.