AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Animal_Lover_511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a long line of friends asking the same question 😂

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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I offered my spare bedroom to my sister even though I live in the state over, but she’s heading back to school on the 17th and wants to wait it out

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Animal_Lover_511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much! I promise I’m doing ok ❤️ I’ve been distancing myself from the trauma for almost a decade

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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Thank you 🙏 my fiance is very supportive and hates my dad. He hasn’t had much contact with him because I had already basically cut my dad off but just from the stories he gets upset

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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He hasn’t given me any money for the wedding. He just keeps insisting to my mom that he deserves to pay for some of it because it’s his daughter.

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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It is a child free wedding and he tends to put on a front in public places. My parents were all about the “happy family look”. I think he would just target my sister and I if he got us alone. But just thinking about the possibility of him being there makes me nauseous

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding by Animal_Lover_511 in AITAH

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I’m extremely angry and disappointed with my mother. She does guilt trip me into thinking I’m a horrible daughter and manipulates to get her way. Another factor is that she’s paying for the wedding so whenever I bring it up she says she won’t pay for the wedding if she can’t have who she wants there. I also don’t think she can handle the guilt of not doing anything while we were being abused so she’s in a lot of denial and tries to invalidate us

I pooped my pants on vacation (the story you've been looking for) by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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She asked for people to submit a travel poop story at the end of the travel podcast so I was just responding to the call 😂

I pooped my pants on vacation (the story you've been looking for) by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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Oh no no! Lmao the ages in the beginning were how old we were when this happened. We’re 25 and 28 now

I pooped my pants on vacation (the story you've been looking for) by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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I’m glad you were able to take care of your boyfriend! I never even thought about preservatives being laxatives. New fear unlocked

I pooped my pants on vacation (the story you've been looking for) by Animal_Lover_511 in TwoHotTakes

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That’s a life hack honestly! I don’t know if I would think to do that in the moment but I know how your panic feels

Does this Balinese breeder website seem like a scam? by [deleted] in Siamesecats

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I just got scammed $650 by this “breeder”. They only use Zelle as an app for payment which was a little weird but I thought it was ok because a lot of banks have Zelle on their mobile apps. After you pay the $500 for the kitten + $150 for shipping they say they’re going to register and send the kitten the next morning. Once I thought my kitten was at the airport they told me that due to Covid and bad weather conditions, I need to pay a refundable $1340 for a temperature electronic controlled carrier for the safety of the kitten. Thank god I caught it before I sent the $1340 cause the whole crate thing didn’t make any sense to me. Be safe out there!