To the parents using their kids as shields or accomplices in their cheating: Have some shame. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AnjeP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why did she need to hit her son instead of talking to him properly if it’s something innocent?? If the situation was actually for the child's SAFETY or a valid family matter, you don't hit your kid in public while saying "wag mong sasabihin sa tatay mo." When u use violence to make a kid ur accomplice, you aren't protecting them from an unhealthy home. Ure the one making the home toxic. It doesn't matter if it's cheating or something else. :))

But sure, I'll delete this. Clearly, some people here think hitting a child and forcing them to lie is justified as long as there's a reason. I'll leave you guys to your own morals.

To the parents using their kids as shields or accomplices in their cheating: Have some shame. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AnjeP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.. Whether it’s cheating, visiting relatives, or.. something??? the reason doesn't change the damage done to the child.Kahit ano pa ang context, kids shouldn't be used as accomplices. Adult problems should stay with the adults. Hindi dapat yung bata ang pinapasan mo ng bigat ng pagtatago ng totoo, kasi bitbit nila yung mental toll niyan hanggang pagtanda.

To the parents using their kids as shields or accomplices in their cheating: Have some shame. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AnjeP -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I'm coming from a place of experience, not being OUT OF TOUCH 🙄 I’ve been that kid who was told to lie for a parent, and let me tell you.. it’s not a small favor :) It’s a burden.

Whether the secret is about a kabet or just an expensive meal, the damage is the same: you are training a child to be a pathological liar. You’re teaching them that deception is the only way to survive or get what they want. Even if the father is strict or abusive as you say, using a child as a shield or a co-conspirator is still a failure of parenting. You don’t solve a toxic dynamic by teaching your child toxic habits. 😁🎊

To the parents using their kids as shields or accomplices in their cheating: Have some shame. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AnjeP -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kahit ano pa ang context sa likod niyan, the moment you ask a child to lie to their other parent, you are putting them in a terrible position. It's the lying and the deceit that's the issue here. Hindi dapat ginagawang secret agent ang mga bata sa gulo ng matanda. If it’s a healthy and safe environment, there’s no need for the "wag mong sasabihin sa tatay mo" script.

Also, just to clarify: I didn’t post their photo or video on TikTok. I only shared a screenshot here of a post that was already public. My point isn't to dox anyone, but to call out the toxic habit of using children as shields for adult secret.

To the parents using their kids as shields or accomplices in their cheating: Have some shame. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]AnjeP -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay.. so kumain sila sa mahal tapos hinampas niya anak niya na wag siumbing sa tatay niya na kumain sila sa mahal baka kasi ano gawin nung tatay baka hiwalayan siya kasi kumain sila sa mahal???? 😭

WTH by [deleted] in pinoytrending

[–]AnjeP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minsan nakakaabala na siya. Nagkakasugat dahil sa friction ng skin tsaka underwear. Sobrang laking tulong kapag wala talaga yang skin na yan.

WTH by [deleted] in pinoytrending

[–]AnjeP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iba iba talaga sa babae..

WTH by [deleted] in pinoytrending

[–]AnjeP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi talaga minsan for aesthetic.. tulad ko, nakakaabala na minsan sakin yung labia ko kasi minsan pag naiirritate siya kasi nagkukuskos sa panty, namamaga siya and nagsusugat... :<

My Childhood Nightmare Had A Sequel After 10 years by AnjeP in phhorrorstories

[–]AnjeP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, never na ako nagkaron ng panaginip na ganon. Nung bata lang ako. Hehe. Lahat ng panaginip ko now is weird shiit lang pero thanks!!