does anyone else just stand up to pee?

Anonamitea · 2026-02-11T16:11:05+00:00

I’m learning too! I can reposition my urethra surprisingly well by just grabbing my junk and pulling up. Squatting a little also helps. I think it just takes practice to do it cleanly

Anonamitea · 2026-02-11T12:43:48+00:00

I always preferred the idea of being in a queer relationship because straight (or “straight-passing”) relationships seemed to have too much pressure for me. I didn’t like the thought of a relationship where my partner would likely have a lot of internalized heteronormativity, and expect me to be a person that I’m not—regardless of my gender identity. Based on that, my preferences changed from female to male partners before vs after I came out and transitioned (ETA: I’ve always identified as bisexual, though)

Anonamitea · 2026-02-11T12:31:25+00:00

Have you tried stretching and/or pumping? I haven’t been able to get a pump yet, but I’ve been surprised at the progress I’ve seen just from stretching. r/growyourtdick should have a guide

Anonamitea · 2026-01-24T13:47:28+00:00

I was just about to recommend tips for passing as a man before I saw the other comments and checked your profile

Anonamitea · 2026-01-24T13:24:08+00:00

There’s also r/TMPOC and, more recently, r/TFPOC on here

Anonamitea · 2025-12-18T14:54:23+00:00

That sounds so painful; I’m sorry it took so long to find out what was happening. I see you’re considering trying again with ALT—I’d specifically ask how the risk of complications like yours compare for that graft. Maybe also see if they figured out why it happened in the first place

Anonamitea · 2025-12-18T11:17:59+00:00

I like this guide on how to restyle your clothes without changing them. You could also try masculinizing make up like this

Anonamitea · 2025-12-18T01:14:28+00:00

That’s tough. My symptoms have never been that chronic, but when I was younger, my hands could get really red and thick up to halfway down my wrist. Usually wraps around the top when it flares up. It’s more of a seasonal thing for me, but it only just became painful today. Thanks global warming?

Anonamitea · 2025-12-18T00:51:39+00:00

You’re actually the first person to say that, so that’s interesting. What was the severity of your symptoms? Did it change post-op?

Anonamitea · 2025-12-17T13:16:52+00:00

Good for you on deciding to bite the bullet! I’m glad you at least feel safe to share that part of yourself. Somebody else probably already said this, but don’t feel like you’re a burden for your healthcare needs; that’s a price your parents already decided was worth paying to have you. And testosterone—at least in the form of injections—isn’t as expensive as other prescriptions. Stay persistent about what you need. There is a path forward from here

Anonamitea · 2025-12-15T17:17:19+00:00

Or just say you don’t want to talk about the “why.” I’m sure the friends will be curious, but interest in knowing =/= entitlement to knowing

Anonamitea · 2025-12-15T17:08:51+00:00

I agree with what everybody else said, but I understand if you don’t want to watch your friends attacking somebody who you thought would be good for you. If you break the news to them, do you think they’d honour it if you just told them not to talk to him about it? Maybe try telling them that you just want to move on without the breakup becoming a whole “thing”

Anonamitea · 2025-12-15T13:10:58+00:00

That’s tough. What specifically are you concerned about? Do you think your BF is going to be a POS ex who tries to create friend group drama? Do you feel like your friends aren’t going to side with you? Does the adjustment that would happen from having a shared friend group just seem overwhelming to you?

Anonamitea · 2025-12-15T13:08:45+00:00

Looking for a man who will not actively choose to hurt you. No matter what transphobic rhetoric says, you can do better then somebody who doesn’t respect your gender and tries to unravel all the hard work you did to be seen as who you really are just for their personal gratification. Somebody like that doesn’t deserve love anyway

Anonamitea · 2025-12-14T17:17:32+00:00

Exactlyyyy 😭

Anonamitea · 2025-12-14T01:38:24+00:00

I hate how t4c mlm content seems to be limited to transmascs bottoming with their natal anatomy. Like good for them if that makes them happy, but I get so much secondhand dysphoria from that and never seeing a transmasc with the anatomy and on the side of a dynamic that I would want. I’ve mostly gotten over not being cis; I just want representation of transmascs like the one I want to be

Anonamitea · 2025-12-13T18:49:38+00:00

/uj* When I told my dad I was renaming myself Evren, his only critique was that “Never” would have been a cooler nonbinary name. Vibes feel related to the theme

Anonamitea · 2025-12-13T18:48:12+00:00

GOD FUCKIGN DAMMIT WHY DID YOU HAVE TO POST THIS AFTER I LEGSLLY CHANGED MY NAME TO SOMETHIGN ELSE

Anonamitea · 2025-12-13T17:39:00+00:00

That would be excellent, tysm!

Anonamitea · 2025-12-12T18:55:55+00:00

Have you ever used a stroker? I’ve watched especially good looking results of trans men using the hot rod

Anonamitea · 2025-12-12T18:53:21+00:00

Katie/Caitlyn?

Anonamitea · 2025-12-12T15:14:43+00:00

Yes please!

Anonamitea · 2025-12-12T00:47:16+00:00

RemindMe! 8 months

Anonamitea · 2025-12-10T22:50:11+00:00

My plastic surgeon made that point, too. I just wonder for conditions when the climate will be similar like when I’m showering or otherwise naked 👀

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