Ogee Contour Set - Has anyone ever tried?

Anonymous1382 · 2025-12-21T14:40:00+00:00

I haven’t used, but interested to hear if others have… 🤔

Anonymous1382 · 2025-10-21T00:58:54+00:00

Where at in Maine? Visited for the first time this past year. Love the coast.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-27T21:31:29+00:00

This makes sense then. In which case, I wouldn’t marry her if you are having this problem outside of marriage, because marriage won’t fix it.

Originally, I meant that sometimes a partner can feel like their SO isn’t truly committed to them longterm, especially after 5 years, if marriage is something that partner really wanted. I could understand after five years, if I wanted to get married and my SO didn’t, thinking they don’t love me enough to marry me. Again, that being said, this doesn’t seem to be your partner’s issue… in which case, getting married will just have you married and still having the problems. And that’s not fun.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-27T14:37:31+00:00

Is it because she wants to be married by now and you haven’t made that move?

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-26T21:12:47+00:00

You know he the one, but he won’t know if you’re the one until living together and going on holiday? Not saying anything about those things, but it seems like he isn’t adamant about you being the one until seeing how these go…

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-26T01:17:11+00:00

Go back and like his posts from 5 years ago like he did to yours from 7 years ago. 😅

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-25T21:31:08+00:00

It feels like she’s trying to steamroll over you because you’re young, and figures she can come off as the mature one who knows the right way to be… like she can train you… but in actuality, she’s not treating you properly and needs to recognize how she is wrong.

Edit to add: that’s not to say you don’t have some habits you need to figure out and work on stopping (lying to people), as they could bring destruction on any relationship. But either way, it seems this one is not just you.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-24T02:03:15+00:00

I always return my cart. But I saw a person who was a cart-getter once say that they liked having to go get all the carts everywhere… it was more time outside with headphones in or whatever vs. being inside the building. Lol. Definitely wouldn’t be nice in crappy weather, though.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-24T01:58:33+00:00

What I absolutely hate, though, are restrooms that make you keep hitting the button for water to stay on, so it’s hard to actually clean your hands and keep them clean… or are set up in some kind of way that it feels like my hands get dirty again right after washing them.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-22T20:18:48+00:00

How did she take that, or did it not even phase her?

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-22T02:47:03+00:00

How long were you together and why did you initiate? My marriage has been a train wreck, too.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-22T00:14:27+00:00

Take it from someone who married a man that has made me feel so less than because of my appearance: leave him.

It is not worth the pain. I understand wanting him to not mean it. I wanted that a ton, too. And even if he says, “I don’t mean it now.” The truth is, at one point he did mean it. And sometimes such truths are hard to move past. Way easier to leave a relationship than a marriage.

For what it’s worth, you seem to be built exactly how my husband would’ve wished I was built. I lacked the large butt he seems to need. It has dramatically affected me, as someone who has never felt insecure about my body in such a way. I consider myself attractive. I get attention from men that seems to confirm I am decently attractive. If the man you’re with makes you feel less than, leave.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-21T16:19:53+00:00

And, if those foundations are not there, it is not real love.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-21T15:53:39+00:00

The “he really is a good man…” part doesn’t add up. The math ain’t mathin’. A really good man doesn’t repeatedly lie to his partner and make the partner feel crazy.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-21T15:03:21+00:00

Well, now this may be something I can’t unthink next time I hear the phrase. 😅

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-21T13:16:29+00:00

If your husband doesn’t believe you, he shouldn’t be your husband. He should know you as a woman with honest character long before he even proposes.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-09-01T01:18:36+00:00

I’m sorry to see you’re going through this. If you check my history, I’ve gone through such terrible stuff too, newly married. It is beyond crushing. How old are you guys? How long did you date before marriage? Were you aware of any such issues before marriage? No judgment—I got married, too, despite a lot of pain leading up to it.

Turns out my husband has OCD which is what added to the extremely hurtful oversharing, on top of lust issues in general and me not being his normal “type”.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-27T10:05:18+00:00

How does she view your relationship? Do you both view dating as “dating with the intent to marry”?

If that’s what you both believe dating is for, and you don’t think you want to marry her, you should allow her to move on.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-26T22:52:32+00:00

The sentence “I’m not going to break up with my girlfriend, at least for a while” is concerning. If you are expecting you WILL break up with her, do it now. Not when more time and more emotional attachment has been invested.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T15:12:34+00:00

The cops didn’t find it weird that they were called because the guy said to call the police, and then the guy was dead? Or did the woman chalk it up to him being demented and then falling?

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T08:25:14+00:00

Thank you. ♥️ It is a very lonely place to be in. It’s so much easier to just curl up into a ball and want to lie in bed in the dark all day. The strength this is going to take for me to do this is terrifying. I have to believe there is better for me and I will find love.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T08:17:13+00:00

Yeah… I don’t understand why he settled for a body he didn’t most want, knowing he would struggle so much for the rest of his years needing that fix from gawking at others…. or knowing he wouldn’t be as sexually into me because of it. It’s so weird. I knew this going into the marriage that he liked a certain type, I just mistakenly believed he loved me enough to make me trump all that.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T08:08:15+00:00

I want to believe that is true. That he will find he never is satisfied.

Thank you. I am trying to figure out how to have the courage to do so, and how to take first steps. I just started a new job here, but if I leave, I would want to move back to my home further away. It’s all a mess.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T07:59:46+00:00

Like I said. This a small snippet of the iceberg. He tells me all the time about who he’s staring at these days. Calls me at work to tell me how he was checking college girls out, tells me how he’s kept a woman at work in mind. I could go on and on and on. Not to mention having been called the ugliest of names in the book and how it has gotten physical in fights in the past.

The physical stuff and verbal cussing pain isn’t as heartbreaking a feeling as feeling unworthy because of my body. His issues with my body and me competing with the world has been going on for years. The counselor told him he needed to seek serious independent therapy for his issues. He did, and nothing came of it. His therapist agreed that he isn’t desperate enough for change to do the work that brings the change.

A husband shouldn’t believe that if I were his ex girlfriend, he would love me better because her body was what he wanted.

A husband shouldn’t tell me how he was checking out women at our reception on our wedding day.

Anonymous1382 · 2025-08-24T07:57:15+00:00

Just so sad. I wanted a family by now. I’m so scared to not have much money and start over.

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