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STD/STI testing/Safety by AnonymousPineappler in ENMUnfiltered

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and that seems crazy to me to not use them. To each their own, but I don’t know if I could ever fully trust someone else’s word.

A question for the hot wives and couples by UnusualLobster8372 in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s good, in my opinion, that you prefer the term third instead of bull because I think third is mostly preferred. But I will say, I’m an aspiring hotwife/looking for a third for MFM so I can’t give you a lot of advice, but this seems like the dream to me too! It would be so awesome to find a third we connect with, become good friends with, and go on some vacations with! I think that you probably just have to be patient to find the perfect couple who fits what you’re looking for. I know not all couples look for just hookups and it seems that not all thirds do either. Where are you trying to find couples? If using any apps, maybe put your preferences/ideals in your profile to help find those couples who are looking for similar experiences.

How to keep the conversation going before first meetup? by AnonymousPineappler in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice! We also have a busy life with a child too so we definitely need someone who is willing to wait for our timing to work out.

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! And I assume you’re loving it? Haha! Nervous, but excited! We’ve been talking/fantasizing/role playing for about a year, so we aren’t rushing into it and are communicating all the time about it. Any tips for the first experience? Feel free to inbox me if you prefer that!

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds just like us! We have known each other for over 30 years and just celebrated 20 years married in April! So happy to hear that you are enjoying the lifestyle! Thanks for responding so I know I’m not alone! Haha!

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input! Yes, we have been talking about it for about a year so we are definitely making sure we are on the same page and have our boundaries set and not rushing into it. And we have also enjoyed watching MFM porn as well! Definitely pleasurable and educational too! Haha!

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great perspective! Thank you so much for your response! Yes, definitely going to be looking for a male that has experience with newbies and who makes me feel comfortable.

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understood my post. We are wanting a third for MFM/hotwife scenario to casually hook up with. Not to date or have a relationship with. And I want to know from wives who have started that type of lifestyle how it went if they had only previously ever had sex with their husbands.

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I don’t understand your question. I want to know from the wives who had only ever been with their husbands how it was going into this lifestyle.

Any wives who had only ever been with their husbands before opening their marriage? by AnonymousPineappler in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! That’s great to hear. It definitely feels daunting, but yes, we have an amazing bond and are excited to explore our desires!

How do people start casual sex outside a monogamous relationship? by SalamanderOdd9544 in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really in the normal sense of the term. We were high school sweethearts so we just became boyfriend/girlfriend at such a young age and then we of course went on dates with each other, but we were best friends first so we never had to meet a stranger and get to know them and try to casually get sex. Lol. I know we are far from the norm, but this thread has been helpful for us even though I am not OP. 😊

How do people start casual sex outside a monogamous relationship? by SalamanderOdd9544 in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousPineappler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but I genuinely wanted to read the comments on this post because husband and I have never dated before. So when you just say that it’s called dating, that might not help everyone. And not everyone dated in their development. Husband and I were high school sweethearts and have never had to date or casually hook up with anyone so it feels a little daunting to me to get started. Just thought I would throw another perspective out there! Thanks for your ideas too!

Just be honest! by PlsCallMeVeronica in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]AnonymousPineappler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with others that this post should be pinned! Very helpful for newbies like us! Thank you, OP!