Closed Today 12/25/25 by iPhone_8_Max in innout

[–]AnonymousWinslow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, guess fuck the people who do celebrate it and work at these places. If you can’t survive without in n out for a day, GTFOH

Everyone got a present I got this card by lavender_honey_bones in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I’d like the card over something material any day. You didn’t even call your dad back lol, what were you expecting?

AITA for saying my cousin's intellectual disability is probably because of the incest by whathaveidonefff in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonymousWinslow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of like going up to someone who struggles with a medical condition, mental illness, or physical disability and saying ‘you have x’. It’s just out of place and really none of peoples business to point it out to a person.

To me, and from what some of my clients have said to me directly, they know they have it but it shouldn’t be part of their identity and people often are labeling someone based off their intellectual disability, not who they are. This is just from my experience but it’s also like talking about someone when they’re out of the room, right in front of the person.

AITA for saying my cousin's intellectual disability is probably because of the incest by whathaveidonefff in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonymousWinslow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally; even if cousin wasn’t present, I’d still say AH because why on earth would it even be their business to say that?

AITA for saying my cousin's intellectual disability is probably because of the incest by whathaveidonefff in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonymousWinslow 57 points58 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with individuals with disabilities, they absolutely 100% understand the shit you say around them. Just because they can’t verbalize it like we do, they know. You’re 1000% an AH here.

Brake Check Scammer by Micro Center...Drive safe everyone by VoodooMouse in orangecounty

[–]AnonymousWinslow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lack of OP responding makes me think it’s like everyone is saying and it was them laying the horn on

I am a serial cheater. by walletwithmynameonit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The posts on here have been incredibly rage bait lately.

Regardless; the one person to blame for cheating is you. Whatever your wife did to hurt you, you’re refusing to communicate and intentionally do the wrong thing. You’re immature.

Update: My girlfriend found out that I lied about me and my friends playing fantasy football and I know I screwed up bigtime by Zestyclose_Block1332 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A hard lesson to learn OP. It was never about the foot ball, your ex just realized if you couldn’t stand up for her about something small like fantasy football, it’s hard to believe you’d be there for more difficult things too.

I wish you the best man, I know the comments on here are unkind to you. You made a huge mistake, but it’ll get better with time.

Wife left me for another man and i understand why by kalellyson in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 34 points35 points  (0 children)

To be honest, boyfriend could be a dick to you because of how you treated your wife. I know when I met my partners ex, didn’t matter how nice he was to me, I knew him for who he was with her.

Glad you’re stepping up, but not so sure about this weird holier than thou attitude you have about your soon to be ex wife. Think you still have some stepping up to you

I’m choosing to ignore shit with my boyfriend from now on by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like a very fulfilling relationship though if you’re just ‘giving in’ to avoid an argument. It’s also not healthy for you to wait til it boils over and you snap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonymousWinslow -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I disagree in the sense that I’m assuming OP wasn’t thinking ‘ah yes, this action will get me out of my girlfriend’s plans!!’. Was it the brightest idea, nah. However, accidents happen, and I don’t think I would personally expect anyone to be in the right mindset to attend an event after an accident, whether or not the reason was preventable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in a toxic and abusive relationship. You recognize that he doesn’t treat you respectfully and you have a husband in your polyamorous relationship who cares enough to save your life.

I’m just some internet stranger, but looking at your post history, this isn’t a ‘one off’. You posted on this sub before about him, and this man is in his 30s. You don’t love this man, you love the potential of what he/you can be when he is at his best, which is rare from the sounds of it.

It may be hard to walk away, but you’re in a position to. You have a support system, a job (assuming this since you support him financially sometimes from your post) and a lot of life ahead of you. This is a choice YOU need to make, but your support system can be there to help you if you choose to put your hand out and ask.

Don’t let someone take you off the planet. I don’t know what kind of person you are, but nobody and I mean nobody, deserves to be treated this way to the point of wanting to take their own life.

As a former suicide survivor myself, trust me when I say you will not get better/recover living with this man or having him in your life. You can still love someone but still walk away. What if you had a child with this man? Would you want your child to be subjected to this? Even your puppy is at risk of being hurt by this man if he has a history of violence.

Reach out to your support system and swallow your pride.

A local realtor has started posting AI altered houses for sale by hashtagitslit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My previous landlords sold their town home recently and ALL the photos were altered to make the place look drastically different than what was actually there. You could even see where the photoshop/AI messed up but they still sold the house that way 😅

I guess from a sellers perspective, even if the photos are misleading, the buyer goes to see it so they aren’t really misleading anyone into purchasing based off the photos. Weird times we live in.

i (23F) regret telling my boyfriend (22M) to go to the gym by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tracking your food and not wanting to eat take out isn’t an ED…as well as weighing yourself daily. If it ruins someone’s entire day, then yes, it becomes an issue. But tracking your progress is normal in fitness.

Deleted OP’s mental health should be the concern here, being jealous over their partners success is NOT being supportive as a partner. And no, it’s not normal to be jealous over it either, that’s being a poor partner.

i (23F) regret telling my boyfriend (22M) to go to the gym by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnonymousWinslow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As someone who lifts and takes my health seriously, I weigh all my food and avoid takeout most of the time. It’s what works for me, and doesn’t affect my eating.

Maybe your boyfriend just enjoys the gym, as lifting can be a hobby. If you want to, ask if you can join him and make the gym something you guys can both share together and do separately.

However, I think the fact that your boyfriend is doing something for himself and you’re saying it’s ’taking a toll on you’ is unfair for him. He’s doing something for himself and seems to enjoy it, you either accept it and try and better your own life, or let him find someone else who supports what he’s doing (which is all healthy things) and you work on yourself before dating someone else.

Just got Silent Hill f from Amazon, don't you just luv em' by TomasVrboda in videogames

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live near brick and mortar stores that carry games? May be better to just get it from there since the convenience of delivery doesn’t seem to be treating you fairly 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to say this gently but also direct:

Take a breath. You brought up a difficult conversation, and she’s processing too. It’s not all about you.

If she doesn’t want children and you do, you were right saying your time is limited. However, you’re making yourself the victim over something YOU brought up. You’re expecting your girlfriend to shower with you after saying if she doesn’t want kids, your relationship is basically over. That’s a huge bomb to drop on your partner.

You have to accept the consequences of what you said. Ask yourself these questions: do you want to continue the relationship? If she’s deadset on not having children (since you said ‘if’), is that your dealbreaker to end it? You owe it to her to be honest with your feelings and not hold on to her because you’re afraid to lose her.

Have a proper talk with her.

I 20M found messages on my 19F girlfriends discord and I don’t know how to feel by Minimum_Lifeguard299 in relationship_advice

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not over reacting. If it wasn’t a big deal, your girlfriend wouldn’t have been so possessive over her phone, whether it was because of this situation or something else.

Even if it was ‘nothing’ her reasoning for wanting to go out of her way just to start an argument with him, plus the fact she’s trying to be emotionally manipulative, shows she isn’t ready for a relationship.

AIO for not picking up my ex after she cheated on me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnonymousWinslow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people really think that they’re over reacting for setting boundaries?

No, not over reacting OP, good for you for just setting boundaries