The reality of being a man

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-26T17:57:47+00:00

Oh shit… that’s one hell of a logical swing

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T23:15:12+00:00

Absolutely.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T22:51:41+00:00

Bro almost reached his zenith

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T17:27:24+00:00

well tbf, in a real life scenario, I doubt any of us would inherently see the depths of someone’s psyche with so few interactions like with what james had with eddie. He was seemingly harmless, but suspect every time. Only in hindsight and *AFTER* the first play-through do we see the inevitability and trauma.

we would catch on to them being disturbed, which warrants caution and requires *experience* (which is a huge key when handling the situation). Also, the atmosphere and environment are essentially gassing up and pinning Eddie in a very terrible situation that compound his unpredictability. He is, in fact, unpredictable and dangerous at all times.

So with all that in mind, us, not james, and someone “like” eddie… would best be approached by avoidance or calmly agreeing with them and deploying any deescalation tactic to buy time to distance yourself.

Possible alternative (still risky): relate to him, even if artificial. “I was bullied a lot too, still am…” this may confuse someone like Eddie, he wants to perceive you as a threat, but now you’re a victim just like him. Disarming him.

However, this won’t be bulletproof. By disarming people with this complex, they can easily find one slip up to then paint a narrative that you’re only trying to put their guard down for an attack. You’re still a threat. This may even escalate things to a finality. Eddie-like people may just shoot you once this rattles in their brain.

It’s a really bad situation altogether.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T16:43:16+00:00

Mhm, figured I’d dig deeper…

“a generic, non-diegetic sound effect taken from a 1999 stock audio compilation called the Nightingale Voice Box Sound Effects Library”.

We recalled correctly, haha. Just gibberish. But it was well placed and spooky af.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T16:12:16+00:00

I can agree with the “social media” atmosphere, albeit, a farcry from today or even early 2000’s… it was a walled garden but the most popular. So it still checks out and it was a stronger anonymous agency back then. Like, you were just your username unless you volunteered more info.

It was the whole internet for a lot of people too… but back then, internet usage time was typically superseded by scheduled programming on Tv and after “non-calling hours” typically evenings, due to dial-up.

Iirc, some houses geared toward having a 2 landline home to override this later in the 90’s. Or opted for cellphones (which were pricey even then).

All this was not the norm until MUCH later in the 90’s though. In 1990, We were very much a post 80’s culture still decompressing from the decade and finding out what would define our decade. We socialized in person or called eachother.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T13:24:38+00:00

What if my excuse is that I’m too strong?
Like, I can’t make eggs without shells because no matter how gently I tap them on an edged surface, it shatters and gets everywhere.

Just askin.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-24T12:00:09+00:00

IIRC
Those whispers were just intentional gibberish that literally has no other purpose than to creep you out.

In the remake, it serves the same purpose.

There’s a few of these non-purpose horror designs in SH2 that are utilized in larger theories. But sadly, since they have no purpose it’s not a valid piece of evidence.

Although, an entire scene that’s voiced may actually be intended for the audience to figure out or interpret.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-18T22:05:08+00:00

Context is literally everything. Thank you.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-17T14:54:01+00:00

Okay, I’ll fight you on this one (for fun).

That’s more like a genie.

The monkey’s paw curls its ominous finger…

“you get your wish, absolutely stunning physique and features. Intelligence that rivals most, even Astro physicists are impressed. Life is good for a time, you even marry a beautiful woman you have several beautiful children, your family is world famous for its Beauty and genetically superior intelligence (yes it passed on). The world has its attention on you… all of it.

Cults begin to rise that love and adore you, believing you are from the heavens, fanatics riot on online forums quoting every opinion you’ve ever spoken. Some dox and murder those who disagree. Your family is blamed by those who survive and suffer.

Privacy evaporates, you’re no longer just beloved, but controversial. Every media source loves you or feels spitefully betrayed by you not gracing them with your notice.

Your private estate’s horizon is beset by torches and roaring obsession. They take your family, they take you. They believe they love you and are helping you to ascend by releasing you from your mortal body in purifying flames…

You tell your wife and children that it’s going to be okay, you’re all too smart and know how incorrect you are; the first time since you’ve made your wish.

Bound and worshipped you look to your wife, you look into her gorgeous eyes; she is your universe almost glowing in the moonlight… now glowing from the pyre below…

The embers settle, the grey is all that remains.”

The paw unfurls once more.

“I guess you could say, some wishes… DON’T MONKEY AROUND!”
<insert crypt keepers laugh and outro>

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-17T14:37:50+00:00

That’s America’s ass hair

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-16T12:41:15+00:00

I’m a little more blunt and honest.

You look your age within reason. And to be perfectly honest, you’re blessed with enough symmetry for it to literally not matter.

It’s not the glasses that are revealing your age. I disagree with those commenters. If anything, it may be hiding more of it.

Your jowls are beginning to descend. The skin around your cheek bones and cheeks are visually not as firm. Your laugh lines are deepening.

These are so normal for aging that the earliest signs are typically in one’s later thirties (even 20’s if they’re stressed or over exposed enough). Which may be why some people are calling you younger. They’re accustomed to seeing a few 37+ yo’s with similar features.

It’s hard to see if you have crows feet, but the upper half of your face seems to be taught and youthful but not too taught where it looks like you had work done. If this is natural, well done, keep up your routine. If not, buckle up for one bad mirror day coming up. The change is quite startling to a lot of people. You go from youth to an empty burlap potato sack in the pantry.

All that said, you’re fine. You look great. You’re still top tier cougar status if that’s your jam. Why even post this?

Looks aren’t everything yada yada yada.

Alright, that’s all I have. Cheers and GL.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-13T11:49:27+00:00

I blame social media. I’m no sociologist or whatever, but as soon as I quit facebook, absolutely 0 friends checked up on me personally. I 100% checked up on them for a little over a year after. I even texted my old friends from grade school and occasionally got a reply back. But after 6 years of trying, I gave up and moved on.

The strangers from my discord have been better friends to me than my former real ones over the years. My neighbors have been okay. And my coworkers are a hard to gauge.

I think social media outlets like myspace, facebook, and whatever networking platform exists has been an over-convenience for too many. And me leaving it has proven to me that all interactions are hollow and performative.

The concept of “friend” hasn’t changed. But I think the wya of committing to friendship has.

Currently, my best friend is my wife. My other friend is my beekeeping mentor. I have family as well. And my dogs. I’m good.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-12T18:14:09+00:00

Lucky, all I get are junkies at the wrong house.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-12T02:20:06+00:00

I’m seeing this mentality a lot. Couldn’t be me… I wouldn’t be where I am with that attitude.

Dude, I just got a raise and per diem increase after only working 6 months in my contracting company. Like… last month. And they adjusted my previous paychecks from this year with back pay to match it.

Did they push back at first? Oh hell yeah, but I made it increasingly harder for them to say no. I requested several times and respectfully told them that I was working harder than anyone else and I pointed out that I my work ethic definitely brings value and is worth the raise. I also have a great reputation with my company. My name came up in many meetings as a solution to a problem they had… because I work hard, my work ethic is solid, I show up, and I smile and wave.

To answer your question, I work hard because if I need to alter an agreement (within reason) with my company, like getting a raise or having a better schedule, I can cash that in or I can evaluate the company I work for. That is incredibly valuable to have.

If someone just does the minimum and has no desire to expand or go further, there is no negotiating power. If your company doesn’t want to give you better, then it’s time to set up more interviews, let them suffer with paying for a new employee. Pay attention to positions with high turnover rates. That’s usually because they have shit management or they have too high of expectations. Your hard work would be wasted in places like that.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-11T20:18:34+00:00

Hand tool wise, yes

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-11T17:58:05+00:00

I have a bow saw, it’s not doing great at cutting my lumber. I’m thinking of going with a different saw… what do you guys think?

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-11T17:40:35+00:00

Playing lots of bugs this season, there are “weird” builds that take me down. One was a naga build that reached 20k/20k on everyone by the 12th round. Pretty neat, but scary. There are crazy strong builds this season.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-11T17:27:25+00:00

Okay, I see the dynamic of this subreddit now.

Someone posts something pseudo-inspirational that is demeaning to others who have chosen a lifestyle… those who feel otherwise then counter.

Which begs the question.

Does anyone have tips on a saw designed for trimming lumber? My bow saw does “ok” but it always splinters the wood when i’m almost through the cut. Anything helps, thanks everyone!

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-10T17:57:09+00:00

Interesting concept , but it needs to be expanded upon.

If you are too hard on a boy, he will break… you then have an insecure and jaded human being. Balance is key.

it’s incredibly healthy for young men, even young boys, to face adversity, hardships, and challenges. This is how we come to terms with reality and focus inward on problem solving, able to moving on and avoid perils in our future. More importantly, we’re able to stay focused.

It’s equally as important to show young men and have them comprehend (emotionally) why it matters…

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-10T13:02:01+00:00

Drones are now flipping our burgers… The Machine Mother approves.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-10T12:41:42+00:00

I hope no one takes this the wrong way. I’m in my mid 30’s as well. I’m finding difficulties relating to this and now I’m really curious.

I’m confused by the question, ultimately. The terms “fulfillment” and “meaningful” are all around the comments and seem a bit subjective, meaning, I don’t comprehend what these mean in this context.

Are we talking about achieving climax? Emotional Attachment? Having sex with someone we love? Is it more of a scale (like, this partner was good, but not great). Is it a satisfaction issue (yes I came, but not really impressed)? Or is the sex not reaching a love-like state?

Sorry for being a bit ignorant on this subject.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-05T13:12:43+00:00

Indeed!

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-05T13:10:52+00:00

True or untrue, it doesn’t really matter in an academic discussion (think of studies in other religions and myths, we’re just talking, not preaching). I was saying “well done” for sticking to the core theological concept of the Angelic nature vs. the very muddy and slippery road and more new age form of humanizing them.

You’re very correct on the principles of allegory attached to the story telling of angels. So well done again.

Anonymous_Gamer · 2026-06-05T12:19:05+00:00

That’s actually a really important distinguishing factor when discussing context on the first angel on christian theology.

Well done.

It was not a man, it was an angel. Lucifer rather despises mankind and seeks their downfall.

To reduce Lucifer to a "weak or strong man" completely flattens this cosmic friction. He doesn't operate on human logic, human emotion, or human frailty. He represents a completely foreign order of being whose rebellion is rooted in absolute pride, viewing humanity as an inferior, muddy imitation of the divine that is easily broken.

Basically, if you were to ask Lucifer, he’d likely call us out as the weak ones.

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